"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Problem With "Strong" Independent Women!

Lookatu

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Double Standards as usual being perpetuated and enforced by feminists.

Women being strong and independent = Good

Man being strong = labeled as toxic masculinity

Man being independent = labeled as emotionally unavailable

I had this exact convo with a girl on one of my dates. And I basically told her that being strong is ok and being independent to a point where you're not clingy is also good. Where it falls apart is when women try to be like guys and lose all their feminine attributes and are no longer attractive to guys in the process of trying to be strong. I told her that's a major turn off for a lot of guys and the guys that aren't bothered by it aren't real men but beta's they probably won't respect anyways.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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deadmasterx

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I think the main problem with "strong independent women" is that they think men classify them in the same way they classify men. Men don't give a **** if you make +100K a year, have a PhD on whatever thing and have your own house and car. Then they'll go to media and say "men don't like strong and independent women, I have this this and that but I'm still single".
 
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