When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I've been playing the role of AFC, but there is some beeotch named Muse or something over there that insists that Nighthawk (Mr.Collector) and I (Dagger Kockburn) are the same person. Elor, I will respond to your thread right now with some AFC logic, and you can hit me back with some knowledge.mr_elor said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mr_elor said:Magma and Thundermaverick, I'm on it
It's rough over there on loveshack. There really is a lot of miserable people. IMO, the second chances forum should even exist. All the advise is the same for each post...move on with your life!ThunderMaverick said:
Oh! The humanity!!!ThunderMaverick said:JESUS CHRIST ELOR!!! WHY ARE YOU LINKING TO SOSUAVE??!!
They found out where we're nesting!!! They're going to ban us all!!!!
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
*runs around with war room with head on fire*
Edit:
http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1590094#post1590094
Oh my god that thread is f**king funny!! Just endless replies on the first page from the guys of sosuave saying "amen!" and "I agree!" If they didn't know before...they do now. I'm literally laughing OUT LOUD!
Ah whatever!
we haven't had a flame war with another site in a long time.ThunderMaverick said:JESUS CHRIST ELOR!!! WHY ARE YOU LINKING TO SOSUAVE??!!
They found out where we're nesting!!! They're going to ban us all!!!!
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
*runs around with war room with head on fire*
Edit:
http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1590094#post1590094
Oh my god that thread is f**king funny!! Just endless replies on the first page from the guys of sosuave saying "amen!" and "I agree!" If they didn't know before...they do now. I'm literally laughing OUT LOUD!
Ah whatever!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think I'm banned. My posts are being deleted as we speak.Desdinova said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A-FVCKING-MEN.Desdinova said:Quit grouping together and split up. respond to other posts besides those created by SSers. We're big confident burly men, we don't need to travel in packs amongst a bunch of women and feminine men
Aye aye...Desdinova said:Quit grouping together and split up. respond to other posts besides those created by SSers. We're big confident burly men, we don't need to travel in packs amongst a bunch of women and feminine men
I discovered that you have to pay a fee over there for a "Supporting Membership" which allows you to PM other members. Otherwise, you can't. So that won't work.
since when did that start?Magma said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
