You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've been playing the role of AFC, but there is some beeotch named Muse or something over there that insists that Nighthawk (Mr.Collector) and I (Dagger Kockburn) are the same person. Elor, I will respond to your thread right now with some AFC logic, and you can hit me back with some knowledge.mr_elor said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
mr_elor said:Magma and Thundermaverick, I'm on it
It's rough over there on loveshack. There really is a lot of miserable people. IMO, the second chances forum should even exist. All the advise is the same for each post...move on with your life!ThunderMaverick said:
Oh! The humanity!!!ThunderMaverick said:JESUS CHRIST ELOR!!! WHY ARE YOU LINKING TO SOSUAVE??!!
They found out where we're nesting!!! They're going to ban us all!!!!
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
*runs around with war room with head on fire*
Edit:
http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1590094#post1590094
Oh my god that thread is f**king funny!! Just endless replies on the first page from the guys of sosuave saying "amen!" and "I agree!" If they didn't know before...they do now. I'm literally laughing OUT LOUD!
Ah whatever!
we haven't had a flame war with another site in a long time.ThunderMaverick said:JESUS CHRIST ELOR!!! WHY ARE YOU LINKING TO SOSUAVE??!!
They found out where we're nesting!!! They're going to ban us all!!!!
NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
*runs around with war room with head on fire*
Edit:
http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1590094#post1590094
Oh my god that thread is f**king funny!! Just endless replies on the first page from the guys of sosuave saying "amen!" and "I agree!" If they didn't know before...they do now. I'm literally laughing OUT LOUD!
Ah whatever!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think I'm banned. My posts are being deleted as we speak.Desdinova said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A-FVCKING-MEN.Desdinova said:Quit grouping together and split up. respond to other posts besides those created by SSers. We're big confident burly men, we don't need to travel in packs amongst a bunch of women and feminine men
Aye aye...Desdinova said:Quit grouping together and split up. respond to other posts besides those created by SSers. We're big confident burly men, we don't need to travel in packs amongst a bunch of women and feminine men
I discovered that you have to pay a fee over there for a "Supporting Membership" which allows you to PM other members. Otherwise, you can't. So that won't work.
since when did that start?Magma said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
