You must be flabbergasted by my ability to know it's you Richard.
What to know how I did it?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The answer to most of you women problems is.........
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What to know how I did it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I've only skimmed the thread. Is "EQ" the same as the American "IQ" in your analysis?
lamath
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EQ is emotional inteligence unless in wrong.
mrgoodstuff
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She must got the good puzzy
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
EQ = Emotional Quotient
On another note, using the graph you'll be able to further move ahead by placing the correct men within an organisation or within the power structure of a society.
An example, if I were to say hire a group of 10 country sales managers for the entire South East Asia and want to truly maximise profits, I'll hire 1 motivator, 1 intellectual, 2 expressive's and 6 doers.
The motivator is predisposed to have grandeur plans of expansion and will convince the entire sales group, once that's in motion the intellectuals will come up with minute plans on how it's done, whilst the doers will efficiently execute it, and all the while the expressive's will keep the group cohesion intact by entertainment, some drama...etc.
No one group of the quadrant is more important then the other.
They are all equally important for things to work.
Perhaps some of you would more predisposed to understand this if I were to use personalities in a TV series.
The Walking Dead - Rick Grimes and Negan both play the roles of motivator yet with opposing structure.
In it, try to use the graph to properly place different characters within it.
Who are the doers?
Who are the expressives?
Who are the intellectuals?
An example, if I were to say hire a group of 10 country sales managers for the entire South East Asia and want to truly maximise profits, I'll hire 1 motivator, 1 intellectual, 2 expressive's and 6 doers.
The motivator is predisposed to have grandeur plans of expansion and will convince the entire sales group, once that's in motion the intellectuals will come up with minute plans on how it's done, whilst the doers will efficiently execute it, and all the while the expressive's will keep the group cohesion intact by entertainment, some drama...etc.
No one group of the quadrant is more important then the other.
They are all equally important for things to work.
Perhaps some of you would more predisposed to understand this if I were to use personalities in a TV series.
The Walking Dead - Rick Grimes and Negan both play the roles of motivator yet with opposing structure.
In it, try to use the graph to properly place different characters within it.
Who are the doers?
Who are the expressives?
Who are the intellectuals?
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Why are you not strong enough to stand on your own? Too scared?
PS: Your country is named after a white guy.
Philip II of Spain - Wikipedia
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You mean to say right here that you did all ur house flipping renovations single handedly with those entitled scrawny arms of yours ?Why are you not strong enough to stand on your own? Too scared?
PS: Your country is named after a white guy.
Philip II of Spain - Wikipedia
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Not 100% of it. But a lot of it.
More than you would even know how to do.
And this is not even to mention the fact that some things are physically impossible for 1 person to do.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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And not to mention it would be prohibitively time consuming to just have 1 person do all the work.
Does the owner of whatever company you work for do all the work himself? I work 7 days/week.
Where's those pictures you owe me?
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What if you have trouble getting the ball rolling? My current lifestyle and job does not bring me in contact with many/ young women. I can approach women during the day but the cold approach brings a lot of flakes. I have tried night game but I am really new to the bar scene and I dont favor dancing. Social circle diminished over the years while I worked my fiance situation which has greatly improved.
Getting my self started again feels like staring a 10 year old lawnmower with a rip cord.
Getting my self started again feels like staring a 10 year old lawnmower with a rip cord.
flowtheory
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Ain’t nothing to it but to do it.
Begin as soon as you can so in the next months you’ll yield the results you want. Look at it this way, if you don’t start improving now, 1 year down the line you’ll be in a worse place than you are today and it will be that much harder. You have to start one some point, so take action now
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For night game, step one is becoming very comfortable at the venue. Even if you don't dance, find a bar or club where you like the music and atmosphere. Enjoy the music, have a drink and chat with the bartender. Become a regular. Then you can very soon move on to talking to chicks in your proximity.
Feeling out of place (or new/green or rusty) AND approach anxiety is too much. Fix the first one first.
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