Glassguy
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You need to build a rotation. Plain and simple.
Get out of that mindset of "I am looking for that special woman". It doesnt work. This isnt the Disney channel fellas. Of course we ALL would like to find that unicorn that we get along with to have a good LTR with, thus even more reasons why a rotation is so important.
A solid rotation of 3-4 chicks will:
-Eliminate the neediness of wanting a woman's (singular) attention all of the time.
-Eliminate the over texting/calling
-Create mystery
-Develop an abundance mindset
-Put the women you are spinning in hyper gear to chase you
-You wont follow dating "rules" because you actually will stop giving a shyte. You will do what you want. Why? Because you can get away with it. If one doesnt like it, who cares. She is out or at least on the back burner. Move on to your other plates.
-You will naturally build the confidence that you need from abundance that attracts more women. The rich do get richer in this game. Thats a fact.
-Your frame will be stronger
Building a rotation is not that hard but it IS work.
You have to:
-Properly screen to avoid wasting time and money on useless dates.
-Keep the first few "dates" to drinks only. What happens after you grab a few drinks depends on the chemistry/vibe
-You MUST be clear that you are "talking to other people" so you dont wind up looking like a liar. When women ask me if I am talking to other people, I simply
say that "I am freshly single and talking to a few but exploring my options". I say that no matter how long I have been single. You must create the illusion that
you are open to a relationship with the right person but not in a rush.
-You MUST MUST MUST be willing to walk away. Thats the beauty of a rotation. If one acts disrespectful, its easy to initiate S&D and create space. You have
other options when you have a rotation.
I was once the guy that wasnt a manipulator or cheater. I dont view spinning plates in my rotation as cheating or manipulating. I make it clear that I am talking to other people. Its her choice if she wants to see me again.
I know many of you guys cringe at the thought of getting "caught up" in talking to multiple women. Trust me, it drives them mad because they LOVE the turmoil and competition. If many other women want YOU, they will too. It increases the value in her eyes.
Take the plunge. Build a rotation. I try to go out with a new chick once a week or at the least once every 2 weeks. I need good replacements for my weakest plate in case I need to bounce her from the rotation.
Thats the beauty.
Just food for thought that works for ME.
Everyone have a great weekend.
Get out of that mindset of "I am looking for that special woman". It doesnt work. This isnt the Disney channel fellas. Of course we ALL would like to find that unicorn that we get along with to have a good LTR with, thus even more reasons why a rotation is so important.
A solid rotation of 3-4 chicks will:
-Eliminate the neediness of wanting a woman's (singular) attention all of the time.
-Eliminate the over texting/calling
-Create mystery
-Develop an abundance mindset
-Put the women you are spinning in hyper gear to chase you
-You wont follow dating "rules" because you actually will stop giving a shyte. You will do what you want. Why? Because you can get away with it. If one doesnt like it, who cares. She is out or at least on the back burner. Move on to your other plates.
-You will naturally build the confidence that you need from abundance that attracts more women. The rich do get richer in this game. Thats a fact.
-Your frame will be stronger
Building a rotation is not that hard but it IS work.
You have to:
-Properly screen to avoid wasting time and money on useless dates.
-Keep the first few "dates" to drinks only. What happens after you grab a few drinks depends on the chemistry/vibe
-You MUST be clear that you are "talking to other people" so you dont wind up looking like a liar. When women ask me if I am talking to other people, I simply
say that "I am freshly single and talking to a few but exploring my options". I say that no matter how long I have been single. You must create the illusion that
you are open to a relationship with the right person but not in a rush.
-You MUST MUST MUST be willing to walk away. Thats the beauty of a rotation. If one acts disrespectful, its easy to initiate S&D and create space. You have
other options when you have a rotation.
I was once the guy that wasnt a manipulator or cheater. I dont view spinning plates in my rotation as cheating or manipulating. I make it clear that I am talking to other people. Its her choice if she wants to see me again.
I know many of you guys cringe at the thought of getting "caught up" in talking to multiple women. Trust me, it drives them mad because they LOVE the turmoil and competition. If many other women want YOU, they will too. It increases the value in her eyes.
Take the plunge. Build a rotation. I try to go out with a new chick once a week or at the least once every 2 weeks. I need good replacements for my weakest plate in case I need to bounce her from the rotation.
Thats the beauty.
Just food for thought that works for ME.
Everyone have a great weekend.