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Master Don Juan
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Okay so your gf was never aware of the other two women when you started seeing her and while you are seeing her. I'm not calling it anything, but am objectively making an observation. If the girl is not aware that she is a plate and thinks you are just dealing with her then it's not being honest.I had 3 plates when I met my now girlfriend, she started out as a plate and worked her way to quickly become important enough for me to make her my girlfriend. Since then I have dropped a plate and I am about to ice the third one and keep just my girlfriend and the older woman which I wouldn't even call a rotation.
She is not aware of the older woman and the other girl, so if you wanna call it cheating, go ahead (I guess it is, but as I enjoy her more, I am enjoying the cheating less and less).
Is the other two women aware that you are dealing with other women?
It almost sounds like you are saying you have to be unethical in order to succeed with women (i.e. which in itself is immoral because it's a fornication, but that's another story that I won't get into for the purpose of this thread, so there is no "Christian - friendly" version of plates that does not involve sin which makes it irrational with me on all levels).