You must be flabbergasted by my ability to know it's you Richard.
What to know how I did it?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The answer to most of you women problems is.........
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What to know how I did it?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I've only skimmed the thread. Is "EQ" the same as the American "IQ" in your analysis?
lamath
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EQ is emotional inteligence unless in wrong.
mrgoodstuff
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She must got the good puzzy
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
EQ = Emotional Quotient
On another note, using the graph you'll be able to further move ahead by placing the correct men within an organisation or within the power structure of a society.
An example, if I were to say hire a group of 10 country sales managers for the entire South East Asia and want to truly maximise profits, I'll hire 1 motivator, 1 intellectual, 2 expressive's and 6 doers.
The motivator is predisposed to have grandeur plans of expansion and will convince the entire sales group, once that's in motion the intellectuals will come up with minute plans on how it's done, whilst the doers will efficiently execute it, and all the while the expressive's will keep the group cohesion intact by entertainment, some drama...etc.
No one group of the quadrant is more important then the other.
They are all equally important for things to work.
Perhaps some of you would more predisposed to understand this if I were to use personalities in a TV series.
The Walking Dead - Rick Grimes and Negan both play the roles of motivator yet with opposing structure.
In it, try to use the graph to properly place different characters within it.
Who are the doers?
Who are the expressives?
Who are the intellectuals?
An example, if I were to say hire a group of 10 country sales managers for the entire South East Asia and want to truly maximise profits, I'll hire 1 motivator, 1 intellectual, 2 expressive's and 6 doers.
The motivator is predisposed to have grandeur plans of expansion and will convince the entire sales group, once that's in motion the intellectuals will come up with minute plans on how it's done, whilst the doers will efficiently execute it, and all the while the expressive's will keep the group cohesion intact by entertainment, some drama...etc.
No one group of the quadrant is more important then the other.
They are all equally important for things to work.
Perhaps some of you would more predisposed to understand this if I were to use personalities in a TV series.
The Walking Dead - Rick Grimes and Negan both play the roles of motivator yet with opposing structure.
In it, try to use the graph to properly place different characters within it.
Who are the doers?
Who are the expressives?
Who are the intellectuals?
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Why are you not strong enough to stand on your own? Too scared?
PS: Your country is named after a white guy.
Philip II of Spain - Wikipedia
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You mean to say right here that you did all ur house flipping renovations single handedly with those entitled scrawny arms of yours ?Why are you not strong enough to stand on your own? Too scared?
PS: Your country is named after a white guy.
Philip II of Spain - Wikipedia
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Not 100% of it. But a lot of it.
More than you would even know how to do.
And this is not even to mention the fact that some things are physically impossible for 1 person to do.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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And not to mention it would be prohibitively time consuming to just have 1 person do all the work.
Does the owner of whatever company you work for do all the work himself? I work 7 days/week.
Where's those pictures you owe me?
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What if you have trouble getting the ball rolling? My current lifestyle and job does not bring me in contact with many/ young women. I can approach women during the day but the cold approach brings a lot of flakes. I have tried night game but I am really new to the bar scene and I dont favor dancing. Social circle diminished over the years while I worked my fiance situation which has greatly improved.
Getting my self started again feels like staring a 10 year old lawnmower with a rip cord.
Getting my self started again feels like staring a 10 year old lawnmower with a rip cord.
flowtheory
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Ain’t nothing to it but to do it.
Begin as soon as you can so in the next months you’ll yield the results you want. Look at it this way, if you don’t start improving now, 1 year down the line you’ll be in a worse place than you are today and it will be that much harder. You have to start one some point, so take action now
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For night game, step one is becoming very comfortable at the venue. Even if you don't dance, find a bar or club where you like the music and atmosphere. Enjoy the music, have a drink and chat with the bartender. Become a regular. Then you can very soon move on to talking to chicks in your proximity.
Feeling out of place (or new/green or rusty) AND approach anxiety is too much. Fix the first one first.
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