You must be flabbergasted by my ability to know it's you Richard.
What to know how I did it?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The answer to most of you women problems is.........
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What to know how I did it?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I've only skimmed the thread. Is "EQ" the same as the American "IQ" in your analysis?
lamath
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EQ is emotional inteligence unless in wrong.
mrgoodstuff
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She must got the good puzzy
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
EQ = Emotional Quotient
On another note, using the graph you'll be able to further move ahead by placing the correct men within an organisation or within the power structure of a society.
An example, if I were to say hire a group of 10 country sales managers for the entire South East Asia and want to truly maximise profits, I'll hire 1 motivator, 1 intellectual, 2 expressive's and 6 doers.
The motivator is predisposed to have grandeur plans of expansion and will convince the entire sales group, once that's in motion the intellectuals will come up with minute plans on how it's done, whilst the doers will efficiently execute it, and all the while the expressive's will keep the group cohesion intact by entertainment, some drama...etc.
No one group of the quadrant is more important then the other.
They are all equally important for things to work.
Perhaps some of you would more predisposed to understand this if I were to use personalities in a TV series.
The Walking Dead - Rick Grimes and Negan both play the roles of motivator yet with opposing structure.
In it, try to use the graph to properly place different characters within it.
Who are the doers?
Who are the expressives?
Who are the intellectuals?
An example, if I were to say hire a group of 10 country sales managers for the entire South East Asia and want to truly maximise profits, I'll hire 1 motivator, 1 intellectual, 2 expressive's and 6 doers.
The motivator is predisposed to have grandeur plans of expansion and will convince the entire sales group, once that's in motion the intellectuals will come up with minute plans on how it's done, whilst the doers will efficiently execute it, and all the while the expressive's will keep the group cohesion intact by entertainment, some drama...etc.
No one group of the quadrant is more important then the other.
They are all equally important for things to work.
Perhaps some of you would more predisposed to understand this if I were to use personalities in a TV series.
The Walking Dead - Rick Grimes and Negan both play the roles of motivator yet with opposing structure.
In it, try to use the graph to properly place different characters within it.
Who are the doers?
Who are the expressives?
Who are the intellectuals?
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Why are you not strong enough to stand on your own? Too scared?
PS: Your country is named after a white guy.
Philip II of Spain - Wikipedia
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You mean to say right here that you did all ur house flipping renovations single handedly with those entitled scrawny arms of yours ?Why are you not strong enough to stand on your own? Too scared?
PS: Your country is named after a white guy.
Philip II of Spain - Wikipedia
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Not 100% of it. But a lot of it.
More than you would even know how to do.
And this is not even to mention the fact that some things are physically impossible for 1 person to do.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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And not to mention it would be prohibitively time consuming to just have 1 person do all the work.
Does the owner of whatever company you work for do all the work himself? I work 7 days/week.
Where's those pictures you owe me?
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What if you have trouble getting the ball rolling? My current lifestyle and job does not bring me in contact with many/ young women. I can approach women during the day but the cold approach brings a lot of flakes. I have tried night game but I am really new to the bar scene and I dont favor dancing. Social circle diminished over the years while I worked my fiance situation which has greatly improved.
Getting my self started again feels like staring a 10 year old lawnmower with a rip cord.
Getting my self started again feels like staring a 10 year old lawnmower with a rip cord.
flowtheory
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Ain’t nothing to it but to do it.
Begin as soon as you can so in the next months you’ll yield the results you want. Look at it this way, if you don’t start improving now, 1 year down the line you’ll be in a worse place than you are today and it will be that much harder. You have to start one some point, so take action now
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For night game, step one is becoming very comfortable at the venue. Even if you don't dance, find a bar or club where you like the music and atmosphere. Enjoy the music, have a drink and chat with the bartender. Become a regular. Then you can very soon move on to talking to chicks in your proximity.
Feeling out of place (or new/green or rusty) AND approach anxiety is too much. Fix the first one first.
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