Text messaging

[green69]

When a girl texts you during the day saying "I'm bored!"...does that pretty much mean

"Please give me attention!" ?

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ Who cares what it means, ignore those type of texts and don't think about what they mean



-Cod3r

 

[BxPrince24]

it means they're bored and have nothing better to do than to text people. I know thats why I do.

 

[Trapper]

what kind of relationship you are in with girl? a friend, a fcvk buddy, or what...???? than lets see...

 

[LegendBoy]

I use to get them msgs from the last chick I was trying to game. She would be like I am with my friends at macas im bored what are you doing... I think I would respond like an hour later to them types of msgs..

But it depends on the relationship if shes a friend who cares what you write back. If your interested then its a different story.

 

[green69]

We're sort of friends, it's kind of a grey area there but I am interested. I didn't respond to her msg.

 

[TONYMONTANA523]

There is no grey area either your friends or your not. But usually i just ignore messages like that.

 

[Ace_McGregor]

Grey area = low IL = she's unsure if she wants to date you.

 

[green69]

Ok well like an hour after she sent it i replied back with a simple message, nothin fancy. And ya...I think she would rather just be friends even tho she has said that she iikes me. I feel like i'm on the back burner or something.

 

[Ace_McGregor]

Just use the tips from this site, and you'll slowly raise her IL if she is genuinely interested. Some of the "grey area" girls are interested in you, but they think they can have you with out any kind of fight (probably b/c you have shown too much interest in the past). This isn't any fun to have a guy that's not a challenge - so they put you on the back burner, and look for guys that are a challenge. Challenge = excitement. Get control back of the situation and make her think that YOU'RE the one doing the choosing.

 

[green69]

Just use the tips from this site, and you'll slowly raise her IL if she is genuinely interested. Some of the "grey area" girls are interested in you, but they think they can have you with out any kind of fight (probably b/c you have shown too much interest in the past). This isn't any fun to have a guy that's not a challenge - so they put you on the back burner, and look for guys that are a challenge. Challenge = excitement. Get control back of the situation and make her think that YOU'RE the one doing the choosing.

I agree with u. I used to be such a challenge with her because I had so much going on with my life...and a good friends group to hang out with. I really didn't care one way or the other, but lately since i have developed feelings for her i'm just not the same. Now I have lost a lot of friends and I don't have many people to get together with.

I tried searching through the DJ bible, but couldn't really find any articles on being a challenge or anything like that - maybe i am just a bad searcher.

 

[Bussey]

Her: I'm bored.

You: That's cause you're not with me.

Her: Hehe.

You: I'm serious come over now!

Her: Okay be there soon!

 

[TONYMONTANA523]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^
so pimp gotta use that myself

 

[green69]

The best way to handle a text message from a chick, and not just one like the example given but ANY text message is to simply ignore it. Don't respond. It drives them nuts.

Chicks LOVE when guys give them attention, and lets make no mistake about this - YOUR NOT THE ONLY GUY SHE'S TEXTING.

She's probably got 5 or 6 (more if shes really hot) guys texting her and calling her, trying to get her to go out for dinner, trying to get her to meet up, fawning over her, just basically being AFC and making her out to be a god damn princess...don't get suckered in.

In my AFC days, my ex-gf would always tell me that when she used to text guys, the ones that didn't respond to her, or the ones that did respond but with very little effort were the ones that raised her interest. It shows that you have better things to do. And the worst thing of all that you can do? Respond straight away. Thats a big no no.

Wait maybe 5-6 hours later and then respond, or even let it marinate, wait until she texts you again, showing more interest in you, then text her back - when she again texts you, rinse and repeat. Always maintain the upper hand, after a few days of this, call her up out of the blue one night and set up a meet.

Sarge On...

Cool thx. I waited over an hour to reply...i guess that's not too bad. I actually wasn't gonna respond at all but decided to send back a token answer after i wasn't busy.

And the guys that are interested in her are usually either total AFC's, or just after easy hookups. I'm no DJ myself, but i'm a decent looking guy and even tho i don't have much game i'm not a huge afc IMO.

I've been trying to take control over the text/calling/msging game, i think i've turned the tides a little bit haha.

 

[mrRuckus]

When a girl texts you during the day saying "I'm bored!"...does that pretty much mean

"Please give me attention!" ?

I'd have replied back with something like

"yeah if you want to get out of that line of women at my front door you can just go around back and leave that cake on the porch. What kind of cake did you make anyway?"


I've said things like that a number of times and it always leaves an impression. I get things like "remember when we were first talking and you said blah blah..."

The one an ex of mine brought up a few times was when i said to her on AIM EARLY in meeting her, "goddammit i'm tired of cleaning up all these panties off of my porch."

 

[asdfghjkl]

The best way to handle a text message from a chick, and not just one like the example given but ANY text message is to simply ignore it. Don't respond. It drives them nuts.

Chicks LOVE when guys give them attention, and lets make no mistake about this - YOUR NOT THE ONLY GUY SHE'S TEXTING.

She's probably got 5 or 6 (more if shes really hot) guys texting her and calling her, trying to get her to go out for dinner, trying to get her to meet up, fawning over her, just basically being AFC and making her out to be a god damn princess...don't get suckered in.

In my AFC days, my ex-gf would always tell me that when she used to text guys, the ones that didn't respond to her, or the ones that did respond but with very little effort were the ones that raised her interest. It shows that you have better things to do. And the worst thing of all that you can do? Respond straight away. Thats a big no no.

Wait maybe 5-6 hours later and then respond, or even let it marinate, wait until she texts you again, showing more interest in you, then text her back - when she again texts you, rinse and repeat. Always maintain the upper hand, after a few days of this, call her up out of the blue one night and set up a meet.

Sarge On...

I like this post, except for a one thing. I think waiting 5-6 hours to respond to a text is kinda ridiculous. What sort of conversation can flow out of waiting 5-6 hours to respond? Personally, i respond right away, say whatever it is i wanna say, wait for her response, and repeat.

If she texts you saying shes bored, ask her whatsup? I dunno thats what i would do

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

normally I respond fairly quickly, make "Text small-talk" and then

"Busy. call me later"

 

[Cod3r]

If she texts you saying shes bored, ask her whatsup? I dunno thats what i would do

I'm assuming you don't get laid... correct ?? Nevermind, don't even answer, I'll take your unresponsiveness as a 'no'... tks for playing btw


-COd3r

 

[asdfghjkl]

I'm assuming you don't get laid... correct ?? Nevermind, don't even answer, I'll take your unresponsiveness as a 'no'... tks for playing btw


-COd3r

Wow, im sorry but you have a lot to learn my friend (this is coming from a 17 year old too just so you know.) There are more important things when dealing with women than to stress over a text conversation.

Edit: However, i do agree with your original post, who cares what it means. That was kinda the point i wanted to get across

 

[Cod3r]

There are more important things when dealing with women than to stress over a text conversation.

Actually I take back my last post that was directed at you, I've been posting rather foul things lately, don't take offense... It's that time of the month :flowers:


-Cod3r