"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ace_McGregor

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greene, if you want to read something on being a challenge read through Doc Love's book. Also, Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction" is good also.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I never had a girl message me or call me to say that she is bored...
 

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Cod3r said:
Actually I take back my last post that was directed at you, I've been posting rather foul things lately, don't take offense... It's that time of the month :flowers:


-Cod3r

yeah man, theres more to this whole thing then texting back or waiting

this is all small potatoes if u ask me. if the girl ur hitting on doesnt wanna see u cuz u sent a text message 30 seconds too early or late for her tastes, its time to boost ur taste in women.

Its all about the tone you convey.

its like macromanaging or micromanaging. you can worry bout every little action, or the big picture.
 

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Ever stop and think, just for a sec, that we, as a community, analyze things a little TOO much?

Reading this thread, I just did.

Its a text message guys. If she likes you, it won't matter how fast or slow you answer, how much or little you type, or if you even respond at all. Worry more about how you present yourself when you're actually WITH her. That, in the grand scheme of things, has the greatest effect on her opinion of you.
 
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