"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Testosterone Levels: Married and Divorced

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The level of the male hormone testosterone decreases in men once they become married, according to a study recently published in Psychoneuroendocrinology.

"The level of testosterone in men naturally declines with age, which is why both groups of men mentioned above showed a decline in testosterone over the 10-year period. But overall, the study provides strong evidence that testosterone trajectories can be influenced by the natural aging process as well as changes in marital status. Men who become married experience an accelerated decline in testosterone whereas men who become unmarried experience a slower decline."​

Source: http://www.psypost.org/2017/08/test...n-get-married-increase-men-get-divorced-49437

Is divorced. So I'm going to celebrate one-year divorced this month with this happy dance:

 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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Of all the time I stopped taking risk, the most intense one was when I was happily engaged.

I mean what is the point for aggressive behaviour, risky attitude and muscles if you already have what you need? It makes sense from a natural point of view.

On my personal opinion I find hard to related with the average man once he is marries, I feel while dealing with him the same discomfort I have with dealing with women...they vice on different frequencies.

The only difference are the married guys whos marriage has a secondary role almost as if they did just to check a box.
 

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The level of the male hormone testosterone decreases in men once they become married, according to a study recently published in Psychoneuroendocrinology.

"The level of testosterone in men naturally declines with age, which is why both groups of men mentioned above showed a decline in testosterone over the 10-year period. But overall, the study provides strong evidence that testosterone trajectories can be influenced by the natural aging process as well as changes in marital status. Men who become married experience an accelerated decline in testosterone whereas men who become unmarried experience a slower decline."​

Source: http://www.psypost.org/2017/08/test...n-get-married-increase-men-get-divorced-49437

Is divorced. So I'm going to celebrate one-year divorced this month with this happy dance:

Regardless of this all men should get their T levels checked when they hit 35 and should take a hard look at TRT if they are under 500...Especially if they already go to the gym and eat properly...
 

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Misleading statistics. I wonder how many of those married men get 'comfortable', stop working out, get 'fat and happy, etc. All of that contributes to low T more than simply being married.

My T levels are raging and I've been married almost a decade. Or at minimum, the sex drive is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Misleading statistics. I wonder how many of those married men get 'comfortable', stop working out, get 'fat and happy, etc. All of that contributes to low T more than simply being married.

My T levels are raging and I've been married almost a decade. Or at minimum, the sex drive is.
Your wife let's you phvck her when you want to? That really helps a man.
 

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I m happy when it's my g/f has Ragtime. Gives me a rest. I keep telling u guys rice pie. Get on it and u won't go back.
 

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Asian chicks. I ve had the pleasure of half a dozen Mainland Chinese, Viet, Filipino, Malay and 2 Japanese, including one who I lived with for 2 years. Never been turned down for sex. I don't know if it's cultural upbringing and they take their KPIs seriously or if it's just that they love c0ck. I refuse to question the magic too closely in case it stops working. Looks like the west is going to breed itself out of existence. Thank you feminists. So might as well have a bit of fun on the way and I much prefer SEO girls to curry puffs although I do make an exception for Sri Lankan girls.

Fruitbat s discovered the golden path. Check out his thread it's pretty typical of how it plays out.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can find plenty of localised ones where I am but Backbreaker imported his missus and seems happy. So if you live in bumfuk Iowa or whatever it still can be done.
 

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Asian chicks. I ve had the pleasure of half a dozen Mainland Chinese, Viet, Filipino, Malay and 2 Japanese, including one who I lived with for 2 years. Never been turned down for sex. I don't know if it's cultural upbringing and they take their KPIs seriously or if it's just that they love c0ck. I refuse to question the magic too closely in case it stops working. Looks like the west is going to breed itself out of existence. Thank you feminists. So might as well have a bit of fun on the way and I much prefer SEO girls to curry puffs although I do make an exception for Sri Lankan girls.

Fruitbat s discovered the golden path. Check out his thread it's pretty typical of how it plays out.
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Ha thanks.. went right over my head..

Asian women are brought up to be submissive.
 

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My message got messed up.

Asian women are brought up to be submissive...


What i need to look for ..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yep. And they also stick by u in the down times. I m sure not forever they r still women. I had a 6 week period looking for a job after I got screwed over. My Asian ex didn't disappear like I was expecting her to. I remember a certain blonde hb8 who didn't extend to me so much Grace.

And no they aren't submissive just feminine and smart. If you're doing an ok job of leading she'll let you. And if she cracks it and wants to give you a spray she won't do it in public. Downside is insane jealousy and possessiveness but personally I don't mind that at least it means they care.
 

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If a nagging negative frigid wife is your frame your T will be lower.
F that...I'd let her know if she doesn't want sex anymore than she is giving me permission to get it elsewhere. That way there is no surprises for her.
 

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F that...I'd let her know if she doesn't want sex anymore than she is giving me permission to get it elsewhere. That way there is no surprises for her.
And after a while you'd have to leave her for not supporting you
 

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And after a while you'd have to leave her for not supporting you
Nah, she could leave, I'd just keep doing my thing. She is considered to have abandoned the marriage at that point.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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