"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Testosterone Levels: Married and Divorced

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The level of the male hormone testosterone decreases in men once they become married, according to a study recently published in Psychoneuroendocrinology.

"The level of testosterone in men naturally declines with age, which is why both groups of men mentioned above showed a decline in testosterone over the 10-year period. But overall, the study provides strong evidence that testosterone trajectories can be influenced by the natural aging process as well as changes in marital status. Men who become married experience an accelerated decline in testosterone whereas men who become unmarried experience a slower decline."​

Source: http://www.psypost.org/2017/08/test...n-get-married-increase-men-get-divorced-49437

Is divorced. So I'm going to celebrate one-year divorced this month with this happy dance:

 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Of all the time I stopped taking risk, the most intense one was when I was happily engaged.

I mean what is the point for aggressive behaviour, risky attitude and muscles if you already have what you need? It makes sense from a natural point of view.

On my personal opinion I find hard to related with the average man once he is marries, I feel while dealing with him the same discomfort I have with dealing with women...they vice on different frequencies.

The only difference are the married guys whos marriage has a secondary role almost as if they did just to check a box.
 

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The level of the male hormone testosterone decreases in men once they become married, according to a study recently published in Psychoneuroendocrinology.

"The level of testosterone in men naturally declines with age, which is why both groups of men mentioned above showed a decline in testosterone over the 10-year period. But overall, the study provides strong evidence that testosterone trajectories can be influenced by the natural aging process as well as changes in marital status. Men who become married experience an accelerated decline in testosterone whereas men who become unmarried experience a slower decline."​

Source: http://www.psypost.org/2017/08/test...n-get-married-increase-men-get-divorced-49437

Is divorced. So I'm going to celebrate one-year divorced this month with this happy dance:

Regardless of this all men should get their T levels checked when they hit 35 and should take a hard look at TRT if they are under 500...Especially if they already go to the gym and eat properly...
 

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Misleading statistics. I wonder how many of those married men get 'comfortable', stop working out, get 'fat and happy, etc. All of that contributes to low T more than simply being married.

My T levels are raging and I've been married almost a decade. Or at minimum, the sex drive is.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Misleading statistics. I wonder how many of those married men get 'comfortable', stop working out, get 'fat and happy, etc. All of that contributes to low T more than simply being married.

My T levels are raging and I've been married almost a decade. Or at minimum, the sex drive is.
Your wife let's you phvck her when you want to? That really helps a man.
 

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I m happy when it's my g/f has Ragtime. Gives me a rest. I keep telling u guys rice pie. Get on it and u won't go back.
 

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Asian chicks. I ve had the pleasure of half a dozen Mainland Chinese, Viet, Filipino, Malay and 2 Japanese, including one who I lived with for 2 years. Never been turned down for sex. I don't know if it's cultural upbringing and they take their KPIs seriously or if it's just that they love c0ck. I refuse to question the magic too closely in case it stops working. Looks like the west is going to breed itself out of existence. Thank you feminists. So might as well have a bit of fun on the way and I much prefer SEO girls to curry puffs although I do make an exception for Sri Lankan girls.

Fruitbat s discovered the golden path. Check out his thread it's pretty typical of how it plays out.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can find plenty of localised ones where I am but Backbreaker imported his missus and seems happy. So if you live in bumfuk Iowa or whatever it still can be done.
 

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Asian chicks. I ve had the pleasure of half a dozen Mainland Chinese, Viet, Filipino, Malay and 2 Japanese, including one who I lived with for 2 years. Never been turned down for sex. I don't know if it's cultural upbringing and they take their KPIs seriously or if it's just that they love c0ck. I refuse to question the magic too closely in case it stops working. Looks like the west is going to breed itself out of existence. Thank you feminists. So might as well have a bit of fun on the way and I much prefer SEO girls to curry puffs although I do make an exception for Sri Lankan girls.

Fruitbat s discovered the golden path. Check out his thread it's pretty typical of how it plays out.
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Ha thanks.. went right over my head..

Asian women are brought up to be submissive.
 

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My message got messed up.

Asian women are brought up to be submissive...


What i need to look for ..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yep. And they also stick by u in the down times. I m sure not forever they r still women. I had a 6 week period looking for a job after I got screwed over. My Asian ex didn't disappear like I was expecting her to. I remember a certain blonde hb8 who didn't extend to me so much Grace.

And no they aren't submissive just feminine and smart. If you're doing an ok job of leading she'll let you. And if she cracks it and wants to give you a spray she won't do it in public. Downside is insane jealousy and possessiveness but personally I don't mind that at least it means they care.
 

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If a nagging negative frigid wife is your frame your T will be lower.
F that...I'd let her know if she doesn't want sex anymore than she is giving me permission to get it elsewhere. That way there is no surprises for her.
 

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F that...I'd let her know if she doesn't want sex anymore than she is giving me permission to get it elsewhere. That way there is no surprises for her.
And after a while you'd have to leave her for not supporting you
 

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And after a while you'd have to leave her for not supporting you
Nah, she could leave, I'd just keep doing my thing. She is considered to have abandoned the marriage at that point.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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