"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Swimming is great. It gives you a cardio workout and a muscular workout too. I powerlift, and I use it as my primary cardio exercise because I find it's one of the few cardio exercises that don't devour my strength.
So, yes, you can get a good body from swimming and a good diet. In fact, it's an excellent way to get the lean, kinda muscular look chicks seem to really dig.
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It's funny how often I see people like you, asking if and how they can get a body like Brad Pitt from Fight Club.
He wasn't even strong, he was cut. Swimming is cardio, proper diet and swimming and you will lose weight.
Jesus, and I don't know **** about health and fitness
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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So your asking if a cardiovascular activity is going to build mass?
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Swimming is not only a cardiovascular activity, it provides enough resistance that it WILL put mass on a small person. Or, in the case of an advanced lifter, I've found it keeps mass on. So yes, he can put mass on and get ripped by swimming, he just needs to stick with it and get on the right diet.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I know couple of swimmers and they got good looking body just by swimming. It's really good way to stay lean.
If you are skinny, you'll get little weight when muscles grow bigger, but you must swim a lot to achieve that.
Swimmers bodies are quite good looking to chicks. They got the T-shape because shoulders are quite much involved in swimming.