"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Swimming is great. It gives you a cardio workout and a muscular workout too. I powerlift, and I use it as my primary cardio exercise because I find it's one of the few cardio exercises that don't devour my strength.
So, yes, you can get a good body from swimming and a good diet. In fact, it's an excellent way to get the lean, kinda muscular look chicks seem to really dig.
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It's funny how often I see people like you, asking if and how they can get a body like Brad Pitt from Fight Club.
He wasn't even strong, he was cut. Swimming is cardio, proper diet and swimming and you will lose weight.
Jesus, and I don't know **** about health and fitness
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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So your asking if a cardiovascular activity is going to build mass?
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Swimming is not only a cardiovascular activity, it provides enough resistance that it WILL put mass on a small person. Or, in the case of an advanced lifter, I've found it keeps mass on. So yes, he can put mass on and get ripped by swimming, he just needs to stick with it and get on the right diet.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I know couple of swimmers and they got good looking body just by swimming. It's really good way to stay lean.
If you are skinny, you'll get little weight when muscles grow bigger, but you must swim a lot to achieve that.
Swimmers bodies are quite good looking to chicks. They got the T-shape because shoulders are quite much involved in swimming.