"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi ;)
Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
So much depends on where you live. But generally speaking, there are always outdoor activities waiting to be discovered and enjoyed. I live in the outdoor mecca of the US so it might be easier for me to find such activities all year round, not just in summer, but start by looking at your region and what it has to offer. Also finding community groups with similar interests (meetup, FB groups, community events, etc)

Summer usually translates to water activities, rivers, the ocean, lakes, etc. Those are easy places to start, perhaps paddleboarding, kayaking swimming, tubing, etc.

The biggest thing is to find and socialize with people that are doing the things you enjoy/want to do. From there you'll discover even more activities or events (live music, street markets, fairs, etc, etc).

Summer also translates into camping and road-tripping. Look into that as well. For as much as being social is healthy, so is being alone to recharge, realign, introspect, etc. Camping and road-tripping give you a good outlet to be outside and face your existence and learn about yourself. Not to mention the places you will get to experience.

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So much depends on where you live. But generally speaking, there are always outdoor activities waiting to be discovered and enjoyed. I live in the outdoor mecca of the US so it might be easier for me to find such activities all year round, not just in summer, but start by looking at your region and what it has to offer. Also finding community groups with similar interests (meetup, FB groups, community events, etc)

Summer usually translates to water activities, rivers, the ocean, lakes, etc. Those are easy places to start, perhaps paddleboarding, kayaking swimming, tubing, etc.

The biggest thing is to find and socialize with people that are doing the things you enjoy/want to do. From there you'll discover even more activities or events (live music, street markets, fairs, etc, etc).

Summer also translates into camping and road-tripping. Look into that as well. For as much as being social is healthy, so is being alone to recharge, realign, introspect, etc. Camping and road-tripping give you a good outlet to be outside and face your existence and learn about yourself. Not to mention the places you will get to experience.

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Have you ever be at camping?
Can you describe your experience?
How should I prepare for camping?
Thanks for your answears.
 

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Have you ever be at camping?
Can you describe your experience?
How should I prepare for camping?
Thanks for your answears.
Have you ever be at camping? - Many times
Can you describe your experience? - Exciting, thrilling, challenging, relaxing
How should I prepare for camping? - Youtube it

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not many things look better to a woman than a man with a good shirtless tan. Find a swimming pool you like, scope bikinis, be active and learn the double gainer dive (easy as long as you get good distance from the board on launch and guaranteed to get female attention), have fun, don’t burn, and don’t wear a ball cap.
 
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Hi ;)
Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
Hiking, kayaking, walking, running, beaches, parks, biking, bonfires, roadtrips, adventures to new places, amusement parks, etc, etc...

None of these things is earth shatteringly complex to come up with...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yup and make first dates active dates, has many many positives. Go hiking with a new prospect right off the bat, you get to see her body, how it moves, how motivated she is. You get isolation with her which is key. I declare today’s word is propinquity- look it up.
 

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Tennis

Exercising at a football track field (sprints, tire flips, whatever)

Hikes

Beaches/Swimming
 

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Hi ;)
Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
i golf, fish, walk, jog, do a ton of yard work... pave my driveway....sit on my deck and read... or drink... I make sure I get a ton of sunlight in the winter as well... I’ve always found I rarely get sick when my vitamin d levels are adequate.
 

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Not many things look better to a woman than a man with a good shirtless tan. Find a swimming pool you like, scope bikinis, be active and learn the double gainer dive (easy as long as you get good distance from the board on launch and guaranteed to get female attention), have fun, don’t burn, and don’t wear a ball cap.
Actually I am a women and I don't want to impress anyone. I just keen on sports and I want find a new activities which I can do outside
 

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Actually I am a women and I don't want to impress anyone. I just keen on sports and I want find a new activities which I can do outside
Sorry about that, you should include that in your visible username bio details as this is a men’s forum…
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sorry about that, you should include that in your visible username bio details as this is a men’s forum…
Don't worry. I didn't know that this forum is only for men but I think it's not a big deal because my question is universal ;)
 

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Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
I also like sports and I want find new activities.
 

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Don't worry. I didn't know that this forum is only for men but I think it's not a big deal because my question is universal ;)
It isn't a men's only forum but it is primarily male. There are a few female participants.
 
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