"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi ;)
Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
So much depends on where you live. But generally speaking, there are always outdoor activities waiting to be discovered and enjoyed. I live in the outdoor mecca of the US so it might be easier for me to find such activities all year round, not just in summer, but start by looking at your region and what it has to offer. Also finding community groups with similar interests (meetup, FB groups, community events, etc)

Summer usually translates to water activities, rivers, the ocean, lakes, etc. Those are easy places to start, perhaps paddleboarding, kayaking swimming, tubing, etc.

The biggest thing is to find and socialize with people that are doing the things you enjoy/want to do. From there you'll discover even more activities or events (live music, street markets, fairs, etc, etc).

Summer also translates into camping and road-tripping. Look into that as well. For as much as being social is healthy, so is being alone to recharge, realign, introspect, etc. Camping and road-tripping give you a good outlet to be outside and face your existence and learn about yourself. Not to mention the places you will get to experience.

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So much depends on where you live. But generally speaking, there are always outdoor activities waiting to be discovered and enjoyed. I live in the outdoor mecca of the US so it might be easier for me to find such activities all year round, not just in summer, but start by looking at your region and what it has to offer. Also finding community groups with similar interests (meetup, FB groups, community events, etc)

Summer usually translates to water activities, rivers, the ocean, lakes, etc. Those are easy places to start, perhaps paddleboarding, kayaking swimming, tubing, etc.

The biggest thing is to find and socialize with people that are doing the things you enjoy/want to do. From there you'll discover even more activities or events (live music, street markets, fairs, etc, etc).

Summer also translates into camping and road-tripping. Look into that as well. For as much as being social is healthy, so is being alone to recharge, realign, introspect, etc. Camping and road-tripping give you a good outlet to be outside and face your existence and learn about yourself. Not to mention the places you will get to experience.

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Have you ever be at camping?
Can you describe your experience?
How should I prepare for camping?
Thanks for your answears.
 

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Have you ever be at camping?
Can you describe your experience?
How should I prepare for camping?
Thanks for your answears.
Have you ever be at camping? - Many times
Can you describe your experience? - Exciting, thrilling, challenging, relaxing
How should I prepare for camping? - Youtube it

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not many things look better to a woman than a man with a good shirtless tan. Find a swimming pool you like, scope bikinis, be active and learn the double gainer dive (easy as long as you get good distance from the board on launch and guaranteed to get female attention), have fun, don’t burn, and don’t wear a ball cap.
 
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Hi ;)
Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
Hiking, kayaking, walking, running, beaches, parks, biking, bonfires, roadtrips, adventures to new places, amusement parks, etc, etc...

None of these things is earth shatteringly complex to come up with...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yup and make first dates active dates, has many many positives. Go hiking with a new prospect right off the bat, you get to see her body, how it moves, how motivated she is. You get isolation with her which is key. I declare today’s word is propinquity- look it up.
 

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Tennis

Exercising at a football track field (sprints, tire flips, whatever)

Hikes

Beaches/Swimming
 

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Hi ;)
Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
i golf, fish, walk, jog, do a ton of yard work... pave my driveway....sit on my deck and read... or drink... I make sure I get a ton of sunlight in the winter as well... I’ve always found I rarely get sick when my vitamin d levels are adequate.
 

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Not many things look better to a woman than a man with a good shirtless tan. Find a swimming pool you like, scope bikinis, be active and learn the double gainer dive (easy as long as you get good distance from the board on launch and guaranteed to get female attention), have fun, don’t burn, and don’t wear a ball cap.
Actually I am a women and I don't want to impress anyone. I just keen on sports and I want find a new activities which I can do outside
 

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Actually I am a women and I don't want to impress anyone. I just keen on sports and I want find a new activities which I can do outside
Sorry about that, you should include that in your visible username bio details as this is a men’s forum…
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sorry about that, you should include that in your visible username bio details as this is a men’s forum…
Don't worry. I didn't know that this forum is only for men but I think it's not a big deal because my question is universal ;)
 

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Has anyone have advice for me how to spend actively time during summer?

I'm 23 years old and I want to spend more time outside because I have to improve my health and my well-being.

In my opinion it's very good to spend as much time as it possible at fresh air but I haven't got idea what can I do outside?

Thanks.
I also like sports and I want find new activities.
 

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Don't worry. I didn't know that this forum is only for men but I think it's not a big deal because my question is universal ;)
It isn't a men's only forum but it is primarily male. There are a few female participants.
 
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