SoMichMATT
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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.The Frustrated Chump said:What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.SoMichMATT said:whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
S.Y.L said:Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.
And Hollister is cheap too.
American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
S.Y.L said:Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.
Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
Yeah, try both, and see what works better, as long as you arent fat, they look fine.SoMichMATT said:ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.