"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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give me some pictures of what you would wear to a party or a social shin dig

and also visit kinowear.com

and gq.com
 
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ugh, no pics right now, camera is broke but

i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go to topicstyle.com theres lots of good stuff there.

I'm guessing you are around 14-22 ish. Shop at Abercrombie, Lacoste, Hollister, wear some sweaters, dress shirts.
 
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What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?

I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you :p
 
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whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
 
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The Frustrated Chump said:
What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?

I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you :p
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Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.

And Hollister is cheap too.


American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
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Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.

Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
 
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Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.

And Hollister is cheap too.


American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
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:up: Thanks.
 
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S.Y.L said:
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.

Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
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ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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