SoMichMATT
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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
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give me some pictures of what you would wear to a party or a social shin dig
and also visit kinowear.com
and gq.com
and also visit kinowear.com
and gq.com
SoMichMATT
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ugh, no pics right now, camera is broke but
i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
SoMichMATT
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i'm muscular with with a lil bit of a belly
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yeah, i'm 16
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What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you
SoMichMATT
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whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.The Frustrated Chump said:What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you
And Hollister is cheap too.
American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.SoMichMATT said:
Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
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S.Y.L said:
Thanks.SoMichMATT
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S.Y.L said:
ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
Yeah, try both, and see what works better, as long as you arent fat, they look fine.SoMichMATT said:
Heres like an example of looking good, for any situation:
http://www.topicstyle.com/366383-post2337.html
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.