"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SoMichMATT

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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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give me some pictures of what you would wear to a party or a social shin dig

and also visit kinowear.com

and gq.com
 

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ugh, no pics right now, camera is broke but

i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go to topicstyle.com theres lots of good stuff there.

I'm guessing you are around 14-22 ish. Shop at Abercrombie, Lacoste, Hollister, wear some sweaters, dress shirts.
 
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What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?

I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you :p
 

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whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
 

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The Frustrated Chump said:
What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?

I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you :p
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.

And Hollister is cheap too.


American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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S.Y.L

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SoMichMATT said:
whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.

Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
 
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Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.

And Hollister is cheap too.


American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
:up: Thanks.
 

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S.Y.L said:
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.

Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.

ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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