SoMichMATT
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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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give me some pictures of what you would wear to a party or a social shin dig
and also visit kinowear.com
and gq.com
and also visit kinowear.com
and gq.com
SoMichMATT
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ugh, no pics right now, camera is broke but
i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
SoMichMATT
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i'm muscular with with a lil bit of a belly
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SoMichMATT
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yeah, i'm 16
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What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you
SoMichMATT
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whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.The Frustrated Chump said:What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you
And Hollister is cheap too.
American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.SoMichMATT said:
Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
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S.Y.L said:
Thanks.SoMichMATT
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S.Y.L said:
ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
Yeah, try both, and see what works better, as long as you arent fat, they look fine.SoMichMATT said:
Heres like an example of looking good, for any situation:
http://www.topicstyle.com/366383-post2337.html
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.