SoMichMATT
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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.The Frustrated Chump said:What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?
I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.SoMichMATT said:whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
S.Y.L said:Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.
And Hollister is cheap too.
American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
S.Y.L said:Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.
Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
Yeah, try both, and see what works better, as long as you arent fat, they look fine.SoMichMATT said:ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.