"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SoMichMATT

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Ok, I go to a normal school, not a really rich community so just pretty much normal clothes, but advcie for some style. I'm 6'1 200, so i am a bigger guy. Style advice please
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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give me some pictures of what you would wear to a party or a social shin dig

and also visit kinowear.com

and gq.com
 

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ugh, no pics right now, camera is broke but

i lift for football, and i'm becoming bigger and bigger in my shoulders and stuff, so i just need to find some clothes that look good on a big guy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go to topicstyle.com theres lots of good stuff there.

I'm guessing you are around 14-22 ish. Shop at Abercrombie, Lacoste, Hollister, wear some sweaters, dress shirts.
 
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What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?

I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you :p
 

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whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
 

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The Frustrated Chump said:
What would be a good place to shop for stylish clothes if you don't have mountains of cash to shop at Abercombie & Fitch?

I was thinking maybe, American Eagle? And if you say Old Navy, I'll slap you :p
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.

And Hollister is cheap too.


American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SoMichMATT said:
whats the diff between classic and muscle fit, which one is beter for big guys
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.

Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.
 
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S.Y.L said:
Just go to the back of Abercrombie to the clearance section, theres just tons of stuff, T shirts for $15, jeans for $20-30.

And Hollister is cheap too.


American eagle stuff looks awful IMO, and their jeans fit like ****.
:up: Thanks.
 

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S.Y.L said:
Muscle is a little tighter, which fits around the arms tight. If You can wear the proper size in them, they look great. But if you have quite a bit of fat, they don't look very good.

Classic fit is more of a looser fit, like the average T shirt.

ok, i'll go forthe classic fit, thanks for the help,
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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