"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Stupid, cowardly moderation on the forums.

[R]eality

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To close political and racial threads is cowardly, especially if they're in the anything else section.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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piranha45

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also, this site doesn't spend enough time trying to help save the whales; pretty soon they'll all be dead and we'll have noone but sosuave to blame for it.
 

Skel

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[R]eality said:
To close political and racial threads is cowardly, especially if they're in the anything else section.

Go to political crossfire if you want to talk politics. In otherwords. GTFO!
 

piranha45

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address the politics but skip the whales, so typical
 

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piranha45 said:
address the politics but skip the whales, so typical
Whales: The Forgotten Minority....
 

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Oh hay look at this, someone new telling us how to do our job. What a suprise :rolleyes:
 

piranha45

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WELL DUH NIGHTAWK, just like there are different races of whale
 

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piranha45 said:
address the politics but skip the whales, so typical
I think you'll find that gay whales are the true minority here, yet you ignore their plight completely. What are you, homophobic?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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manuva said:
I think you'll find that gay whales are the true minority here, yet you ignore their plight completely. What are you, homophobic?
Those gay sperm whales are the way that they are because they could only score a "6" on HotOrNot.com.
 

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[R]eality SHUT YOUR F*CKIN STUPID ASS UP!!!!!!

If you're looking to get racial and SHlT go somewhere else.... this is the internet there are 18,000,000 places you can go, those are the rules of THIS forum just f*ckin live with it!!!!

Man the F*ck up and stop complaining all the time. Only females vent that much and that's only because they have menstraul cycles. All that time you're talking about politics and racist sh*t you could be out there getting your little Dlck sucked...


click the link below to ignore [R]eality
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/profile.php?do=addlist&userlist=ignore&u=29008
 

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[R]eality said:
To close political and racial threads is cowardly, especially if they're in the anything else section.
Seeing as how the rules of the forum specifically state that threads of a political and/or racist manner are not allowed, and also seeing that the owner of the site rarely locks down any threads himself, just what are you saying is cowardly? Obviously you aren't calling him cowardly since he didn't actually close any threads himself, but no intelligent person would call the people whose jobs it is to enforce the rules cowardly simply for abiding by the terms of the forum that everyone agreed to by registering a username.

After all, isn't that like calling a police officer a coward because he pulled you over when you were speeding? Why stop there? You may as well call the doctor who washes his hands before performing your vasectomy a coward too. After all, it's quite cowardly to follow these "rules" and "regulations"... isn't it?

:rolleyes:
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah i understand the rules and the reason for the rules but , your putting many discussions loosly under the term racial or political , there was a discussion about different cultures , and striclty cultures and the terms races was used and boom it was closed ... idk why , it was a nice sivil discussion so far ...
 

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Morphiex said:
idk why , it was a nice sivil discussion so far ...
It always turns into a fight! ALWAYS..... 100% of the time. If people were mature enough to talk about sh*t w/o flaming maybe it would work, but that sadly isn't the case.

Besides, those are the only threads that ever get attention. Someone could be dying to get advice and no one would answer but something about race, or politics come up and BAM!! 50 posts in 30 minutes.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
However, it's not my site so that's not my call. In all fairness though, this site could not exist without members, so we should get some say in what should and should not be open for discussion.

If we put those types of issues up for a vote, I think the auto-censoring would be the first to go. (Like people really don't know what we're saying when we see "f'uck" or "pvssy".)
Your mistake is thinking this is a democracy in this case. This is still a privately owned website where the person shelling out the cash for the runnings and operation calls all the shots. We could vote till the cows came home but it's really up to him to say what stays and what goes. Although the site "needs" members, i suppose, there's little any of us could do besides petition him and hope he hears us and agrees with our point(s) (which I don't see happening) or boycott the site (which is equally unlikely) until the message is heard. Sorry but that's the reality of the situation. There's one man's ruling and little any of us can do to change things around here.
 

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diablo said:
Seeing as how the rules of the forum specifically state that threads of a political and/or racist manner are not allowed...
By the way, anyone who is pissed off about those rules can blame me. Anyone who was around in 2001 and 2002 knows why.
 

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piranha45 said:
also, this site doesn't spend enough time trying to help save the whales; pretty soon they'll all be dead and we'll have noone but sosuave to blame for it.

amen
 

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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