fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Stealing a good girl from a good guy
- Thread starter fertileTurtle
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I'm really fvcked then.Lust said:
But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.
And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.
It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
April_Infinite
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It's men like you I fear
dynamicallyidle
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The rules of dating an ex of a friend:fertileTurtle said:
1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.
If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
So we can sum it all up with,( . )( . ) said:
:yes:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
dynamicallyidle said:
No zhit.