"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stealing a good girl from a good guy

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Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
I'm not into "stealing",

This may sound AFC, but how'd you feel if you were the good guy? The powerless one? As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
 

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Lust said:
As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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( . )( . ) said:
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
Oh sh!t I'm confused.

Well, maybe i don't believe in so much karmic debts, but if this guy was genuinly good, i probably wouldn't go for it.
 

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But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
So we can sum it all up with,
May the best man win.
:yes:
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.

No zhit.
 
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