fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Stealing a good girl from a good guy
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I'm really fvcked then.Lust said:
But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.
And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.
It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
April_Infinite
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It's men like you I fear
dynamicallyidle
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The rules of dating an ex of a friend:fertileTurtle said:
1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.
If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
So we can sum it all up with,( . )( . ) said:
:yes:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
dynamicallyidle said:
No zhit.