"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stealing a good girl from a good guy

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Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
I'm not into "stealing",

This may sound AFC, but how'd you feel if you were the good guy? The powerless one? As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
 

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Lust said:
As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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( . )( . ) said:
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
Oh sh!t I'm confused.

Well, maybe i don't believe in so much karmic debts, but if this guy was genuinly good, i probably wouldn't go for it.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
So we can sum it all up with,
May the best man win.
:yes:
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.

No zhit.
 
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