fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Stealing a good girl from a good guy
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I'm really fvcked then.Lust said:
But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.
And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.
It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
April_Infinite
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It's men like you I fear
dynamicallyidle
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The rules of dating an ex of a friend:fertileTurtle said:
1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.
If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
So we can sum it all up with,( . )( . ) said:
:yes:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
dynamicallyidle said:
No zhit.