"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stealing a good girl from a good guy

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Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
I'm not into "stealing",

This may sound AFC, but how'd you feel if you were the good guy? The powerless one? As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
 

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Lust said:
As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
Oh sh!t I'm confused.

Well, maybe i don't believe in so much karmic debts, but if this guy was genuinly good, i probably wouldn't go for it.
 

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But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
So we can sum it all up with,
May the best man win.
:yes:
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.

No zhit.
 
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