"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stealing a good girl from a good guy

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Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
I'm not into "stealing",

This may sound AFC, but how'd you feel if you were the good guy? The powerless one? As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
 

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Lust said:
As deep as i am into the game, i still believe in karmic debts.
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
Should it be done? How would you go about it? Pros and cons and plenty of good stories, and thank you ahead of time.
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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( . )( . ) said:
I'm really fvcked then.


But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?

Inadvertantly wouldnt you agree the "bad" guys who "steals" his woman/en are apart of his becoming excellent. And surely in doing so are in debt of some good karmic points for that.

And thats not to mention the stimulation and excitement the "bad" guy gives to the woman by giving her a momentary break from the mundane monotony she has with the "good" guy.

It's all relative you see. On the contrary he may doing the world and even the universe a favour.
Oh sh!t I'm confused.

Well, maybe i don't believe in so much karmic debts, but if this guy was genuinly good, i probably wouldn't go for it.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
But what if the "good" guy says enoughs enough after he finds out one too many "bad" guys are boning his chicks and decides to break out of the sh!tty matrix, inturn striving to become the best man he can be?
So we can sum it all up with,
May the best man win.
:yes:
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
The rules of dating an ex of a friend:

1) He broke up with her
2) He gives you his blessing.

If both #1 and #2 have not been met, then FORGET IT. No matter WHAT he says, he will distance himself from you if you start going for his girl.

No zhit.
 
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