Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
With a view to making it 36 if you're not careful, get back to eating.wolf116 said:Well warboss Alex has me on 24 eggs a day!!!!!!!!![]()
Thats hardcore.Warboss Alex said:With a view to making it 36 if you're not careful, get back to eating.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is not good thinking Spes:nono: Kind of thinking that leads to lackluster results.spesmilitis said:Speaking of BOR's, progress has been very slow for the BOR. As for the presses, I'm not too concerned about them until my BOR is as much as my bench.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
they're like the cheapest calories out there.. isn't it a dollar for a dozen or something?i am me said:iono bout u guys but i cant afford 24-36 eggs a day lol
Spes, try and include the number of sets and reps you used for all your worksets, with the weight used as well, it's kinda confusing right now. Let's see what you have decided upon for your routine as well, sets and reps included please!spesmilitis said:deadlift: 330x4
OH squats
pull up: 55x9
BOR
Grip work
Curls
Decline heavy abs
that workout is a step in the right direction.. why the OH squats? do curls before grip.spesmilitis said:deadlift: 330x4
OH squats
pull up: 55x9
BOR
Grip work
Curls
Decline heavy abs
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your workout confuses me slightly. Of course it could be my own experience that is confusing me. It just seems odd to me that you are doing for deads:spesmilitis said:To Quaq:
Warm up sets excluded:
Deadlift: 285x2, 315x1, 330x4
OH squat: 5x5 for 45lbs
pull up: 55x9, 30x9
BOR: 5-7 reps of 95 lbs
I'll put in the 20-reppers if I can't put weight on my squat ever week or almost ever week. I'll start doing ATG only just this next work out, so I am unsure of what my progress will be. I'll probably start with 5-10 reppers and adjust from there.
To WBA:
OH squats for core development. At 45 lbs I doubt I'm working my legs =p
I figured I should do curls before grip when I couldn't do curl cuz my grip was too sore.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.