You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
With a view to making it 36 if you're not careful, get back to eating.wolf116 said:Well warboss Alex has me on 24 eggs a day!!!!!!!!![]()
Thats hardcore.Warboss Alex said:With a view to making it 36 if you're not careful, get back to eating.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This is not good thinking Spes:nono: Kind of thinking that leads to lackluster results.spesmilitis said:Speaking of BOR's, progress has been very slow for the BOR. As for the presses, I'm not too concerned about them until my BOR is as much as my bench.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
they're like the cheapest calories out there.. isn't it a dollar for a dozen or something?i am me said:iono bout u guys but i cant afford 24-36 eggs a day lol
Spes, try and include the number of sets and reps you used for all your worksets, with the weight used as well, it's kinda confusing right now. Let's see what you have decided upon for your routine as well, sets and reps included please!spesmilitis said:deadlift: 330x4
OH squats
pull up: 55x9
BOR
Grip work
Curls
Decline heavy abs
that workout is a step in the right direction.. why the OH squats? do curls before grip.spesmilitis said:deadlift: 330x4
OH squats
pull up: 55x9
BOR
Grip work
Curls
Decline heavy abs
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your workout confuses me slightly. Of course it could be my own experience that is confusing me. It just seems odd to me that you are doing for deads:spesmilitis said:To Quaq:
Warm up sets excluded:
Deadlift: 285x2, 315x1, 330x4
OH squat: 5x5 for 45lbs
pull up: 55x9, 30x9
BOR: 5-7 reps of 95 lbs
I'll put in the 20-reppers if I can't put weight on my squat ever week or almost ever week. I'll start doing ATG only just this next work out, so I am unsure of what my progress will be. I'll probably start with 5-10 reppers and adjust from there.
To WBA:
OH squats for core development. At 45 lbs I doubt I'm working my legs =p
I figured I should do curls before grip when I couldn't do curl cuz my grip was too sore.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.