Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
With a view to making it 36 if you're not careful, get back to eating.wolf116 said:Well warboss Alex has me on 24 eggs a day!!!!!!!!![]()
Thats hardcore.Warboss Alex said:With a view to making it 36 if you're not careful, get back to eating.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This is not good thinking Spes:nono: Kind of thinking that leads to lackluster results.spesmilitis said:Speaking of BOR's, progress has been very slow for the BOR. As for the presses, I'm not too concerned about them until my BOR is as much as my bench.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
they're like the cheapest calories out there.. isn't it a dollar for a dozen or something?i am me said:iono bout u guys but i cant afford 24-36 eggs a day lol
Spes, try and include the number of sets and reps you used for all your worksets, with the weight used as well, it's kinda confusing right now. Let's see what you have decided upon for your routine as well, sets and reps included please!spesmilitis said:deadlift: 330x4
OH squats
pull up: 55x9
BOR
Grip work
Curls
Decline heavy abs
that workout is a step in the right direction.. why the OH squats? do curls before grip.spesmilitis said:deadlift: 330x4
OH squats
pull up: 55x9
BOR
Grip work
Curls
Decline heavy abs
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your workout confuses me slightly. Of course it could be my own experience that is confusing me. It just seems odd to me that you are doing for deads:spesmilitis said:To Quaq:
Warm up sets excluded:
Deadlift: 285x2, 315x1, 330x4
OH squat: 5x5 for 45lbs
pull up: 55x9, 30x9
BOR: 5-7 reps of 95 lbs
I'll put in the 20-reppers if I can't put weight on my squat ever week or almost ever week. I'll start doing ATG only just this next work out, so I am unsure of what my progress will be. I'll probably start with 5-10 reppers and adjust from there.
To WBA:
OH squats for core development. At 45 lbs I doubt I'm working my legs =p
I figured I should do curls before grip when I couldn't do curl cuz my grip was too sore.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.