"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lost In the Seas

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what are good excersice to train up the chest (breats), and thigh muscles? i think these are the two areas i need to work on the most
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SQUAT
 

Lost In the Seas

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i can't go to gym nor do i have weights at home............:(

so what else can i do to excerise my thigh muslces
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuanMonk

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
i can't go to gym nor do i have weights at home............:(

so what else can i do to excerise my thigh muslces
Do 500 pushups a day and 500 situps.

Guaranteed results.
:woo:
 

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never heard of anyone asking for advice on thighs... but i would suggest treadmill or jogging. good for building muscles in that area.

but dont forget that's its a type of cardio exercise, so watch what you burn.
 

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i used to do 300 push ups day, but maybe only 150 for sit ups, but not sure if i can do that many push ups now since i haven't done it for a long tme, i can probably do 240 a day max for now
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LMAO, I hope we all know that DJmonk is BS-ing us! LOL, sarcasm never ceases to amuse me.:cheer:

Generally, you can forget about BUILDING muscle without gym or weights. Least you can do is spring for a set of dumbells- around HK$500 will do.

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The only way to build muscle is with weights.

If you don't have any do some pushups.... with someone/something on your back. Get a backpack and fill it with some rocks or scrap metal or something and do pushups.

Same with squats. And pullups.
 

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For thighs, try lunges; but if you don't do them right, they won't work.

Also, stretch every day.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
yup, i stretch everyday, and what is the right way to do lunges?
Stretching is good for warming up your muscle in preparation for working it out. If you want to find the proper way to do lunges, you need to go to a gym and watch how a trainer or someone else does it - if you get advice on doing it from words on a screen odds are very good you'll screw it up (not intentionally, but it's like trying to learn how to smile by reading an explanation).

By the way, why can't you go to a gym or buy weights for your house?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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God, i reaqlly hate it when people think push-ups and sit-ups will give them a great body in like a month!

Listen, if you really, and i mean REALLY, want to get the body you want you'll have to lift weights and have a good diet!

1) Buy a bench

2) Buy a barbell with weights

3) Buy dumbells

4) Work out with a proper routine

5) Get a proper diet going (high in protein etc...)

Not wanting to 'give out' to you or anything but this is the way to do it.

GOOD THIGH EXERCISES:

SQUAT (CRUCIAL!)
DEADLIFTS (CRUCIAL!)



GOOD CHEST EXERCISES:

DIPS (leaning forward)
INCLINE BB* PRESS (wide grip)
FLAT DB** PRESS (flex chest muscles together at top of movement)

Hope that helps!

*BB=Barbell
**DB=Dumbell
 
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