logicallefty
Moderator
We have had some good conversations about cheating women. Do 50% cheat? 60%? 100%? 0%?
Let's see where we are on here.
Let's see where we are on here.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sosuave Comminity Cheating Facts | Survey
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
logicallefty
Moderator
Thank you for the input. There are some guys on here that seem more non jaded than the majority of us. I am anxious to see how our community lines up with the media reports we talked about that said 50% or 60% (of married women) cheat. Maybe it's just those of us who are the most active who have been cheated on? May be lots of guys on here who never post and never have been. I hope to hear from them too.Epimanes said:
I am married and have not committed adultery or had adultery committed against myself.. So I consider myself lucky in that regard. My wife had an EA once.. But that was because I was being too beta and acted too needy. I got out of my funk.. Alpha'd up.. And shut down that EA before it turned PA and into divorce. Life lesson for sure. All good now have a good mix of both alpha and beta traits now to keep things in balance. 
Will be interesting to see what others have to say.
Will be interesting to see what others have to say.
Tictac
Banned
How the Hell would you get a percentage of women that 'cheat' from this 'survey'?
Don't quit your day job.
Don't quit your day job.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VikingKing
Banned
shut up titac. This is a decent thread. Some one needs to bring it up. and people should talk about it. Otherwise your perpetuating some blue pill mentality, and just accepting it.Tictac said:
Especially for men on this site that are being cheated on right now. They need a reality check, and learn how to save themselves.
What the fvck is you problem man? You think 40 yo women should be put on a pedastil, you think women cheating shouldn't be discussed?
I your acting like a beta who believes in true love, and 40 + women are the key.
da fuq wrong with you old man?
In a way.. Ok I agree an EA is adultery to the extent that jesus put it "if you even think sexual thoughts about someone other than your spouse you have committed adultery in your heart"
However.. We all commit adultery under that.
But in my case I didn't count the EA as adultery because there was never any physical contact. Only msn messenger chats. Sure it still hurt.. But I blamed myself because of my bad beta traits at the time. Thankfully there was nothing more than chats.
However.. We all commit adultery under that.
But in my case I didn't count the EA as adultery because there was never any physical contact. Only msn messenger chats. Sure it still hurt.. But I blamed myself because of my bad beta traits at the time. Thankfully there was nothing more than chats.
:crackup: hilarious!Tictac said:
lefty meant well with the survey but it doesn't matter
quit living in the past, if she cheated that is old news, she should be out of your mind, the relationship is old history, dont dwell over something that happened months/years ago, your game should be tight after that experience where you can game better women
Peaks&Valleys
Master Don Juan
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This Poll is skewed, and it will shoot out biased statistics (like most statistics)
"How?" or "Blah, blah, you're an idiot P&V"
No, I'm smart. Listen up:
So, if you were in 10 LTR's in your life and you got cheated on ONCE, possibly in your AFC days, or possibly you just fell under the spell of the wrong woman, if it happened ONCE out of TEN times, then you'd be checking the FOR SURE cheated on box.
So, if everyone got cheated on 1 out of 10 times and checked the FOR SURE box, then the outcome of this survey would be that women cheat 100% of the time, although in truth, it would be only 10% of the time.
Good effort lefty but you left out my category all together so I had to check the "Hey Lefty this survey is stupid category."
I would like to say: "I know for a fact I have never been cheated on, EVER" But I can't in 100% confidence say this.
Mine would be: "For the most part, I don't believe I've ever been cheated on."
There was one time long ago, but we were broken up but not really, and I don't know if she actually hooked up with another guy, but their were signs that she might be seeing someone else, blah, blah. So, "for the most part" works for me.
"How?" or "Blah, blah, you're an idiot P&V"
No, I'm smart. Listen up:
So, if you were in 10 LTR's in your life and you got cheated on ONCE, possibly in your AFC days, or possibly you just fell under the spell of the wrong woman, if it happened ONCE out of TEN times, then you'd be checking the FOR SURE cheated on box.
So, if everyone got cheated on 1 out of 10 times and checked the FOR SURE box, then the outcome of this survey would be that women cheat 100% of the time, although in truth, it would be only 10% of the time.
Good effort lefty but you left out my category all together so I had to check the "Hey Lefty this survey is stupid category."
I would like to say: "I know for a fact I have never been cheated on, EVER" But I can't in 100% confidence say this.
Mine would be: "For the most part, I don't believe I've ever been cheated on."
There was one time long ago, but we were broken up but not really, and I don't know if she actually hooked up with another guy, but their were signs that she might be seeing someone else, blah, blah. So, "for the most part" works for me.
logicallefty
Moderator
I could have done a few things different on the survey but what the heck... Its making for some good fun and discussion. Peeks I see what u mean about the percentage.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Naughty Fins
Don Juan
I got cheated on 2 times already.
The first one was a long-term relationship. All we ever did was kino though. All of the sudden everyone at school told me I was being cheated on. After that all guys at school labeled her as "Cheater".
The second one was short-term, but fun as hell. Four dates, two kisses(I'm proud of it). Then my friends told me she was hanging out with this guy 1-on-1. Asked her who that is, told me it was a "friend" and that she hangs out with more "friends". I dumped her out of insecurity. Too bad she was pretty hot
Ever since I dumped her, I learned alot, and my AFC days were over
The first one was a long-term relationship. All we ever did was kino though. All of the sudden everyone at school told me I was being cheated on. After that all guys at school labeled her as "Cheater".
The second one was short-term, but fun as hell. Four dates, two kisses(I'm proud of it). Then my friends told me she was hanging out with this guy 1-on-1. Asked her who that is, told me it was a "friend" and that she hangs out with more "friends". I dumped her out of insecurity. Too bad she was pretty hot
Ever since I dumped her, I learned alot, and my AFC days were over
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Epi, you know you'd never try to say an EA isn't adultery at the MB forum, you'd get crucified.
She's at a high risk to do it again.
You're at high risk of retaliation.
She can't have contact with that dude again.
Whether you buy all the MB kool aid or not, I'd be real about my situation if I was you.
All due respect.
She's at a high risk to do it again.
You're at high risk of retaliation.
She can't have contact with that dude again.
Whether you buy all the MB kool aid or not, I'd be real about my situation if I was you.
All due respect.
Oh I know.. Never say never. I don't buy into all of the MB program. Just what was necessary to up my good beta for plan A. My situation was no where near as bad as most of the stories on MB. But she/we def rode a slippery slope for quite some time. Wish I had of found this place and marriedmansex life sooner. BUT that's behind us now. My wife is very obviously attracted now. We are becoming the couple everyone hates it seems and this has been happening for a steady 2 years. All extraordinary precautions in those departments are covered.Albatross953 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
logicallefty
Moderator
Thank you Sir.pbsurf said:
I am really enjoying watching these numbers come in.
Looks like guest users without a SS account can vote too. :rockon:
I hope we get 100 votes or many more.
logicallefty
Moderator
Bump
VikingKing
Banned
I dont think its skewed. Of course it could be 1/10 or 1/100, that a man thinks or knows he was cheated on in an ltr.Peaks&Valleys said:
I already took in to account what you stated, before your post.
What kind of retard would take the numbers at face value? You have to take the things you stated into account, I did, and I assume most others would also.
VikingKing
Banned
So what did you vote for exactly?wishyo said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.