logicallefty
Moderator
We have had some good conversations about cheating women. Do 50% cheat? 60%? 100%? 0%?
Let's see where we are on here.
Let's see where we are on here.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sosuave Comminity Cheating Facts | Survey
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
Moderator
Thank you for the input. There are some guys on here that seem more non jaded than the majority of us. I am anxious to see how our community lines up with the media reports we talked about that said 50% or 60% (of married women) cheat. Maybe it's just those of us who are the most active who have been cheated on? May be lots of guys on here who never post and never have been. I hope to hear from them too.Epimanes said:
I am married and have not committed adultery or had adultery committed against myself.. So I consider myself lucky in that regard. My wife had an EA once.. But that was because I was being too beta and acted too needy. I got out of my funk.. Alpha'd up.. And shut down that EA before it turned PA and into divorce. Life lesson for sure. All good now have a good mix of both alpha and beta traits now to keep things in balance. 
Will be interesting to see what others have to say.
Will be interesting to see what others have to say.
Tictac
Banned
How the Hell would you get a percentage of women that 'cheat' from this 'survey'?
Don't quit your day job.
Don't quit your day job.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
VikingKing
Banned
shut up titac. This is a decent thread. Some one needs to bring it up. and people should talk about it. Otherwise your perpetuating some blue pill mentality, and just accepting it.Tictac said:
Especially for men on this site that are being cheated on right now. They need a reality check, and learn how to save themselves.
What the fvck is you problem man? You think 40 yo women should be put on a pedastil, you think women cheating shouldn't be discussed?
I your acting like a beta who believes in true love, and 40 + women are the key.
da fuq wrong with you old man?
In a way.. Ok I agree an EA is adultery to the extent that jesus put it "if you even think sexual thoughts about someone other than your spouse you have committed adultery in your heart"
However.. We all commit adultery under that.
But in my case I didn't count the EA as adultery because there was never any physical contact. Only msn messenger chats. Sure it still hurt.. But I blamed myself because of my bad beta traits at the time. Thankfully there was nothing more than chats.
However.. We all commit adultery under that.
But in my case I didn't count the EA as adultery because there was never any physical contact. Only msn messenger chats. Sure it still hurt.. But I blamed myself because of my bad beta traits at the time. Thankfully there was nothing more than chats.
:crackup: hilarious!Tictac said:
lefty meant well with the survey but it doesn't matter
quit living in the past, if she cheated that is old news, she should be out of your mind, the relationship is old history, dont dwell over something that happened months/years ago, your game should be tight after that experience where you can game better women
Peaks&Valleys
Master Don Juan
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This Poll is skewed, and it will shoot out biased statistics (like most statistics)
"How?" or "Blah, blah, you're an idiot P&V"
No, I'm smart. Listen up:
So, if you were in 10 LTR's in your life and you got cheated on ONCE, possibly in your AFC days, or possibly you just fell under the spell of the wrong woman, if it happened ONCE out of TEN times, then you'd be checking the FOR SURE cheated on box.
So, if everyone got cheated on 1 out of 10 times and checked the FOR SURE box, then the outcome of this survey would be that women cheat 100% of the time, although in truth, it would be only 10% of the time.
Good effort lefty but you left out my category all together so I had to check the "Hey Lefty this survey is stupid category."
I would like to say: "I know for a fact I have never been cheated on, EVER" But I can't in 100% confidence say this.
Mine would be: "For the most part, I don't believe I've ever been cheated on."
There was one time long ago, but we were broken up but not really, and I don't know if she actually hooked up with another guy, but their were signs that she might be seeing someone else, blah, blah. So, "for the most part" works for me.
"How?" or "Blah, blah, you're an idiot P&V"
No, I'm smart. Listen up:
So, if you were in 10 LTR's in your life and you got cheated on ONCE, possibly in your AFC days, or possibly you just fell under the spell of the wrong woman, if it happened ONCE out of TEN times, then you'd be checking the FOR SURE cheated on box.
So, if everyone got cheated on 1 out of 10 times and checked the FOR SURE box, then the outcome of this survey would be that women cheat 100% of the time, although in truth, it would be only 10% of the time.
Good effort lefty but you left out my category all together so I had to check the "Hey Lefty this survey is stupid category."
I would like to say: "I know for a fact I have never been cheated on, EVER" But I can't in 100% confidence say this.
Mine would be: "For the most part, I don't believe I've ever been cheated on."
There was one time long ago, but we were broken up but not really, and I don't know if she actually hooked up with another guy, but their were signs that she might be seeing someone else, blah, blah. So, "for the most part" works for me.
logicallefty
Moderator
I could have done a few things different on the survey but what the heck... Its making for some good fun and discussion. Peeks I see what u mean about the percentage.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Naughty Fins
Don Juan
I got cheated on 2 times already.
The first one was a long-term relationship. All we ever did was kino though. All of the sudden everyone at school told me I was being cheated on. After that all guys at school labeled her as "Cheater".
The second one was short-term, but fun as hell. Four dates, two kisses(I'm proud of it). Then my friends told me she was hanging out with this guy 1-on-1. Asked her who that is, told me it was a "friend" and that she hangs out with more "friends". I dumped her out of insecurity. Too bad she was pretty hot
Ever since I dumped her, I learned alot, and my AFC days were over
The first one was a long-term relationship. All we ever did was kino though. All of the sudden everyone at school told me I was being cheated on. After that all guys at school labeled her as "Cheater".
The second one was short-term, but fun as hell. Four dates, two kisses(I'm proud of it). Then my friends told me she was hanging out with this guy 1-on-1. Asked her who that is, told me it was a "friend" and that she hangs out with more "friends". I dumped her out of insecurity. Too bad she was pretty hot
Ever since I dumped her, I learned alot, and my AFC days were over
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Epi, you know you'd never try to say an EA isn't adultery at the MB forum, you'd get crucified.
She's at a high risk to do it again.
You're at high risk of retaliation.
She can't have contact with that dude again.
Whether you buy all the MB kool aid or not, I'd be real about my situation if I was you.
All due respect.
She's at a high risk to do it again.
You're at high risk of retaliation.
She can't have contact with that dude again.
Whether you buy all the MB kool aid or not, I'd be real about my situation if I was you.
All due respect.
Oh I know.. Never say never. I don't buy into all of the MB program. Just what was necessary to up my good beta for plan A. My situation was no where near as bad as most of the stories on MB. But she/we def rode a slippery slope for quite some time. Wish I had of found this place and marriedmansex life sooner. BUT that's behind us now. My wife is very obviously attracted now. We are becoming the couple everyone hates it seems and this has been happening for a steady 2 years. All extraordinary precautions in those departments are covered.Albatross953 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
logicallefty
Moderator
Thank you Sir.pbsurf said:
I am really enjoying watching these numbers come in.
Looks like guest users without a SS account can vote too. :rockon:
I hope we get 100 votes or many more.
logicallefty
Moderator
Bump
VikingKing
Banned
I dont think its skewed. Of course it could be 1/10 or 1/100, that a man thinks or knows he was cheated on in an ltr.Peaks&Valleys said:
I already took in to account what you stated, before your post.
What kind of retard would take the numbers at face value? You have to take the things you stated into account, I did, and I assume most others would also.
VikingKing
Banned
So what did you vote for exactly?wishyo said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.