Claudio1975
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How does a man ascertain if a woman is married without seeing a ring? It’s been my observation that many Asian women don’t wear a ring signifying marriage.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Some don’t wear rings
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know its a cultural thing, depending where you are there is others things who tell if a woman is taken or not, the ring was a western thing who a lot of eartern country did take, but I don't belive most did and or still use the old tradition on they places are
backseatjuan
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You do not ascertain if she is married or have a boyfriend, you go to gym, get a good haircut, wear brand name clothes that fit, become hot, women will notice and there will be signals of attraction, you react to those signals, never given a damn if she's taken or not.
MillionBillionaire
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The taken ones give you the naughty sex.
The only girls I don't mess with are the "emotionally unavailable" and those are obvious.
The only girls I don't mess with are the "emotionally unavailable" and those are obvious.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Claudio1975
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I once had a minister of all people tell me my ex was “leading me by the nose” and that as long as I was afraid to lose her she’d continue to do so. I guess he knew things.
devilkingx2
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The only reason she would be married and not wearing a ring is:
1. She's curving you by lying
2. She's an attention wh0re/tease
3. She's a cheating slvt
It probably won't be too hard to figure out which is which.
1. She's curving you by lying
2. She's an attention wh0re/tease
3. She's a cheating slvt
It probably won't be too hard to figure out which is which.
oldmanofthesea
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I wouldn't worry about it. You don't explain why you are asking this question so I will assume you ask because you want to avoid hitting on married women. If she's not wearing a ring then simply don't worry about the chance of her being taken. Women without rings often have boyfriends and you can't tell that just by looking either, so just do the approach and if she has a husband or boyfriend that she wants to be faithful to, she will tell you.
Claudio1975
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Well she ignored my text and when I followed the advice I received to just act like everything is cool the next time I saw her in person she was “politely rude” (non-engaging). So, next.
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On to the next one
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.