Claudio1975
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How does a man ascertain if a woman is married without seeing a ring? It’s been my observation that many Asian women don’t wear a ring signifying marriage.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Some don’t wear rings
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I know its a cultural thing, depending where you are there is others things who tell if a woman is taken or not, the ring was a western thing who a lot of eartern country did take, but I don't belive most did and or still use the old tradition on they places are
backseatjuan
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You do not ascertain if she is married or have a boyfriend, you go to gym, get a good haircut, wear brand name clothes that fit, become hot, women will notice and there will be signals of attraction, you react to those signals, never given a damn if she's taken or not.
MillionBillionaire
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The taken ones give you the naughty sex.
The only girls I don't mess with are the "emotionally unavailable" and those are obvious.
The only girls I don't mess with are the "emotionally unavailable" and those are obvious.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Claudio1975
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I once had a minister of all people tell me my ex was “leading me by the nose” and that as long as I was afraid to lose her she’d continue to do so. I guess he knew things.
devilkingx2
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The only reason she would be married and not wearing a ring is:
1. She's curving you by lying
2. She's an attention wh0re/tease
3. She's a cheating slvt
It probably won't be too hard to figure out which is which.
1. She's curving you by lying
2. She's an attention wh0re/tease
3. She's a cheating slvt
It probably won't be too hard to figure out which is which.
oldmanofthesea
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I wouldn't worry about it. You don't explain why you are asking this question so I will assume you ask because you want to avoid hitting on married women. If she's not wearing a ring then simply don't worry about the chance of her being taken. Women without rings often have boyfriends and you can't tell that just by looking either, so just do the approach and if she has a husband or boyfriend that she wants to be faithful to, she will tell you.
Claudio1975
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Well she ignored my text and when I followed the advice I received to just act like everything is cool the next time I saw her in person she was “politely rude” (non-engaging). So, next.
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On to the next one
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.