Claudio1975
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How does a man ascertain if a woman is married without seeing a ring? It’s been my observation that many Asian women don’t wear a ring signifying marriage.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Some don’t wear rings
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I know its a cultural thing, depending where you are there is others things who tell if a woman is taken or not, the ring was a western thing who a lot of eartern country did take, but I don't belive most did and or still use the old tradition on they places are
backseatjuan
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You do not ascertain if she is married or have a boyfriend, you go to gym, get a good haircut, wear brand name clothes that fit, become hot, women will notice and there will be signals of attraction, you react to those signals, never given a damn if she's taken or not.
MillionBillionaire
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The taken ones give you the naughty sex.
The only girls I don't mess with are the "emotionally unavailable" and those are obvious.
The only girls I don't mess with are the "emotionally unavailable" and those are obvious.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Claudio1975
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I once had a minister of all people tell me my ex was “leading me by the nose” and that as long as I was afraid to lose her she’d continue to do so. I guess he knew things.
devilkingx2
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The only reason she would be married and not wearing a ring is:
1. She's curving you by lying
2. She's an attention wh0re/tease
3. She's a cheating slvt
It probably won't be too hard to figure out which is which.
1. She's curving you by lying
2. She's an attention wh0re/tease
3. She's a cheating slvt
It probably won't be too hard to figure out which is which.
oldmanofthesea
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I wouldn't worry about it. You don't explain why you are asking this question so I will assume you ask because you want to avoid hitting on married women. If she's not wearing a ring then simply don't worry about the chance of her being taken. Women without rings often have boyfriends and you can't tell that just by looking either, so just do the approach and if she has a husband or boyfriend that she wants to be faithful to, she will tell you.
Claudio1975
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Well she ignored my text and when I followed the advice I received to just act like everything is cool the next time I saw her in person she was “politely rude” (non-engaging). So, next.
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On to the next one
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.