Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

So I bought the home gym. What workout regime to use?

Status
Not open for further replies.

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
Sucks. I would check all the other ones very carefully and also, can you at least obtain partial functionality of the machine without using that one bad pulley?
We checked the others and they look ok. It's like hard plastic. Its one of the major pulleys he said so you really need it.

Just ticked. Hopefully this last awhile or I have a very heavy paper weiggt in my garage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,651
Reaction score
6,594
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
He's already partially assembled it, he's got a guy working on it, it's not feasible for him to disassemble the whole thing and ship it back. He's too far invested.

Additionally, look at the questions he's been asking. Like "How much weight should I use? 10 lbs.?"

He is such a rank beginner (and there's nothing wrong with that) that he'll get himself into less trouble with a machine than with free weights. He doesn't seem to have someone to guide him. If he has the heart for it, he will outgrow the machine and move to free weights. If not, he will get himself into far less trouble with this machine.

Not everyone has the spirit to invest themselves into serious body building. Some guys only have it in them to tone up. He's where he is now. Let's see how he does.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
I registered the product and asked for them to send me out the pulleys. Typical stuff made in China.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,651
Reaction score
6,594
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
I had a Marcy machine about 30 years ago and I got a lot of good use out of it. It was pretty solidly built back then.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
I had a Marcy machine about 30 years ago and I got a lot of good use out of it. It was pretty solidly built back then.
This ones a golds gym. Same price range basically. The marcy ones had some bad reviews for being cheap made.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,787
Reaction score
10,009
This ones a golds gym. Same price range basically. The marcy ones had some bad reviews for being cheap made.
The link you gave was to a Marcy machine. I have a Gold's Gym tower for pull ups and dips. Anyway, I understand wanting to be able to work out in the privacy of your own home, especially if you're a little small to start out with. I think the machine is fine if you add some other equipment with it.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
The link you gave was to a Marcy machine. I have a Gold's Gym tower for pull ups and dips. Anyway, I understand wanting to be able to work out in the privacy of your own home, especially if you're a little small to start out with. I think the machine is fine if you add some other equipment with it.
Must sent the wrong link. Anyway, all the machines in the price range similar. The club house has a similar machine but a bit more heavy duty. Hopefully they get that part to me soon. I have a treadmill and will buy a bike too. I also have dumbbells.

So what other equipment do you recommend?
 

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,329
Reaction score
6,875
There's plenty of uses with dumbbells, even with just those you can build a decent upper body.

Start off with those, build those shoulders of yours.
 

EyeBRollin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2015
Messages
10,536
Reaction score
8,536
Age
37
There's plenty of uses with dumbbells, even with just those you can build a decent upper body.

Start off with those, build those shoulders of yours.
Shoulders are small muscles. He’s a skinny guy. I get OP is a beginner but that’s a waste of time. Bulk comes from legs, ass, and back. Novices should focus on those before anything else.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,329
Reaction score
6,875
Shoulders are small muscles. He’s a skinny guy. I get OP is a beginner but that’s a waste of time. Bulk comes from legs, ass, and back. Novices should focus on those before anything else.
While that's true.

The idea is to get him into an exercise rhythm, dumbells would be useful in that regard.

Just to ease him in, he could start off with doing simple biceps curls, once he sees some results there, he's more then likely to proceed with other area's of his body.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,787
Reaction score
10,009
So what other equipment do you recommend?
Like others have said, a weight bench with barbell for sure, maybe a squat rack.
 

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,329
Reaction score
6,875
So BG, have you tried using the dumbells?

Could you also share with us what work routine you did do and the time you're set aside to build up ur body?

Now think of all those 49 years old hotties salivating over ur rock hard arms and dreaming of being closer to you.
 

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
So BG, have you tried using the dumbells?

Could you also share with us what work routine you did do and the time you're set aside to build up ur body?

Now think of all those 49 years old hotties salivating over ur rock hard arms and dreaming of being closer to you.
Haven't used them in awhile. I do daily cardio. I run about 6 to 8 miles 7days a week.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,329
Reaction score
6,875
Haven't used them in awhile. I do daily cardio. I run about 6 to 8 miles 7days a week.
Okay, that's very good.

Is it hard for you do some simple bicep curls, whilst waiting for ur machine to be fully functional?
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,787
Reaction score
10,009

Blacksheep

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2018
Messages
1,543
Reaction score
1,065
Age
35
Location
Brazil
THIS is the kind of athletic woman looks wise I like. Lean but in good shape. This is soccer hottie Morgan Brian.

The funny part is most on this forum when I posted her pic before only rated her HB6. I'm seriously not kidding. IMO she's Hb 8.5. I'd totally would destroy it.

On a paradise island, she wearing bikini... Hope I dream with that tonight! :p
 

Blacksheep

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2018
Messages
1,543
Reaction score
1,065
Age
35
Location
Brazil
As I said I was buying a home gym as part of my Christmas. So Walmart had one for $200, on sale regular price $300 so I pulled the trigger. It's only 150lb weight stack but I'm not a huge guy and I don't want to be totally ripped guy, just lean muscle.

So like how many days a week would you use it? I do cardio everyday so I'm skinny as it is. An hour a day on the home gym like in the morning and cardio at night?

I'm barley 5-9 and about 125lbs. How many months would it take before I get some lean muscle on me? I also want to do more sit ups and push ups too.

Like, when I do get muscle should I post pics of it on OLD depending on dating app? Like POF I can see it, but would Match be a good idea? The older women on Match though on their profiles say shirtless pics a turn off.

Home gym is coming towards the end of the month.
Different from some answers here... Everything starts at some point. What is better? There is no way to define it... The thing is: do what you think you should do, and improve it during the time. If you like it, someday you change your equips or go to gym, hire a personal trainer, etc.

Some questions: how much effort and energy do you want to spend with this? Is it only to get strong and attract women? Are you up to make the sacrifices to achieve big goals? First thing is to define with clarity why you want that.

Sure that may be a lot of great tips in here and people with years of experience. But don't get stucked on it. Just start.

I bought some equips to my house... it was years of investment. I have some great/essential things (mixing weight trainning, pilates, body weight). As I was learning through the years, I created my own plan. And that is something that gives me much pleasure.

There is some heavy weight trainning techniques and some slow motion where the focus are on the movement. Both can give you some great results. But only you can define which kind of trainning do you like.

I used to spend a lot of time working hard on gym, until I injured my spine. Now I'm recovering and getting back. But I realize that I was spending so much energy on it. I have other goals that is more important than just work out. So I'm balancing it.

Btw, what I want to say is: get the tips here and start your path... then modify it the way you think it's good for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Status
Not open for further replies.
Top