Meisterman
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 15, 2014
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Yay or nay?
I don't plan to date, just smash.
I don't plan to date, just smash.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lmaoDon't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion![]()
Yeah she gonna have her baby. So those BC ( birth control ) mishaps and "forgot" or "delayed" is a bunch of BS.Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
^^This^^ My last SM plate I tagged for 2-3mo? I never had to meet the kid or any of that sh*t. Just had fun for a little bit then ghosted. If she's not on BC forget it, I'm not playing that game anymore. If I had a nickel for everytime I heard: oh it's ok just pull out. Russian roulette my friends!Short term sex toy.
Women with kids should not become serious plates. You pound them a few times then move on.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Except that in my area, they don't seem to be that. Or they haven't gotten the memo. There seems to be an endless supply of nutless beta males willing to not only date them, but LTR them and play daddy to some other man's kid. Blows. My. Mind. It can't be that bad out there, but of all the single women I know, I'd say 75% of them have a kid. It's an epidemic.Single moms are like fat girls - easy pvssy/plan Bs never to be taken seriously.
Fixed."it takes a real pathetic man to care for another man's child" -Single Moms. Don't get sucked in unless she's asking your lower regions.