Meisterman
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 15, 2014
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Yay or nay?
I don't plan to date, just smash.
I don't plan to date, just smash.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lmaoDon't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion![]()
Yeah she gonna have her baby. So those BC ( birth control ) mishaps and "forgot" or "delayed" is a bunch of BS.Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
^^This^^ My last SM plate I tagged for 2-3mo? I never had to meet the kid or any of that sh*t. Just had fun for a little bit then ghosted. If she's not on BC forget it, I'm not playing that game anymore. If I had a nickel for everytime I heard: oh it's ok just pull out. Russian roulette my friends!Short term sex toy.
Women with kids should not become serious plates. You pound them a few times then move on.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Except that in my area, they don't seem to be that. Or they haven't gotten the memo. There seems to be an endless supply of nutless beta males willing to not only date them, but LTR them and play daddy to some other man's kid. Blows. My. Mind. It can't be that bad out there, but of all the single women I know, I'd say 75% of them have a kid. It's an epidemic.Single moms are like fat girls - easy pvssy/plan Bs never to be taken seriously.
Fixed."it takes a real pathetic man to care for another man's child" -Single Moms. Don't get sucked in unless she's asking your lower regions.