Meisterman
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Yay or nay?
I don't plan to date, just smash.
I don't plan to date, just smash.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Single Moms
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Meisterman
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lmaoDon't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion
mrgoodstuff
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Yeah she gonna have her baby. So those BC ( birth control ) mishaps and "forgot" or "delayed" is a bunch of BS.Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion
PantyWhisperer
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I know a single mom, who is now 31 with a 12 year old kid that had three abortions in a row over the last 3 years. Besides qualifying her for a rewards card at the baby killing clinic, it does show that sometimes the LAST thing a single mom wants is another kid.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hockeyfreak79
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^^This^^ My last SM plate I tagged for 2-3mo? I never had to meet the kid or any of that sh*t. Just had fun for a little bit then ghosted. If she's not on BC forget it, I'm not playing that game anymore. If I had a nickel for everytime I heard: oh it's ok just pull out. Russian roulette my friends!
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icantgetlaid
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Single moms are like fat girls - easy pvssy/plan Bs never to be taken seriously.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PantyWhisperer
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Except that in my area, they don't seem to be that. Or they haven't gotten the memo. There seems to be an endless supply of nutless beta males willing to not only date them, but LTR them and play daddy to some other man's kid. Blows. My. Mind. It can't be that bad out there, but of all the single women I know, I'd say 75% of them have a kid. It's an epidemic.
Ratiocinative
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If I was like 48 and I met a hot 38 year old divorced woman with a 17 year old kid then MAYBE I might date her if she was really awesome.
A never married 25 year old single mother with a 4 year old? Hell no. Pathetic.
A never married 25 year old single mother with a 4 year old? Hell no. Pathetic.
JohnChops
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"it takes a real man to care for another man's child" -Single Moms. Don't get sucked in unless she's asking your lower regions.
PantyWhisperer
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