Meisterman
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Yay or nay?
I don't plan to date, just smash.
I don't plan to date, just smash.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Single Moms
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Meisterman
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lmaoDon't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion
mrgoodstuff
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Yeah she gonna have her baby. So those BC ( birth control ) mishaps and "forgot" or "delayed" is a bunch of BS.Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. You already know her stance on abortion
PantyWhisperer
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I know a single mom, who is now 31 with a 12 year old kid that had three abortions in a row over the last 3 years. Besides qualifying her for a rewards card at the baby killing clinic, it does show that sometimes the LAST thing a single mom wants is another kid.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
hockeyfreak79
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^^This^^ My last SM plate I tagged for 2-3mo? I never had to meet the kid or any of that sh*t. Just had fun for a little bit then ghosted. If she's not on BC forget it, I'm not playing that game anymore. If I had a nickel for everytime I heard: oh it's ok just pull out. Russian roulette my friends!
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icantgetlaid
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Single moms are like fat girls - easy pvssy/plan Bs never to be taken seriously.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PantyWhisperer
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Except that in my area, they don't seem to be that. Or they haven't gotten the memo. There seems to be an endless supply of nutless beta males willing to not only date them, but LTR them and play daddy to some other man's kid. Blows. My. Mind. It can't be that bad out there, but of all the single women I know, I'd say 75% of them have a kid. It's an epidemic.
Ratiocinative
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If I was like 48 and I met a hot 38 year old divorced woman with a 17 year old kid then MAYBE I might date her if she was really awesome.
A never married 25 year old single mother with a 4 year old? Hell no. Pathetic.
A never married 25 year old single mother with a 4 year old? Hell no. Pathetic.
JohnChops
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"it takes a real man to care for another man's child" -Single Moms. Don't get sucked in unless she's asking your lower regions.
PantyWhisperer
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