"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Single Moms

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PantyWhisperer

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I know a single mom, who is now 31 with a 12 year old kid that had three abortions in a row over the last 3 years. Besides qualifying her for a rewards card at the baby killing clinic, it does show that sometimes the LAST thing a single mom wants is another kid.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hockeyfreak79

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Short term sex toy.

Women with kids should not become serious plates. You pound them a few times then move on.
^^This^^ My last SM plate I tagged for 2-3mo? I never had to meet the kid or any of that sh*t. Just had fun for a little bit then ghosted. If she's not on BC forget it, I'm not playing that game anymore. If I had a nickel for everytime I heard: oh it's ok just pull out. Russian roulette my friends!
 
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El Payaso

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Avoid like a plague.
 

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Single Moms need c0ck too...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PantyWhisperer

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Single moms are like fat girls - easy pvssy/plan Bs never to be taken seriously.
Except that in my area, they don't seem to be that. Or they haven't gotten the memo. There seems to be an endless supply of nutless beta males willing to not only date them, but LTR them and play daddy to some other man's kid. Blows. My. Mind. It can't be that bad out there, but of all the single women I know, I'd say 75% of them have a kid. It's an epidemic.
 

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If I was like 48 and I met a hot 38 year old divorced woman with a 17 year old kid then MAYBE I might date her if she was really awesome.

A never married 25 year old single mother with a 4 year old? Hell no. Pathetic.
 
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