Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Women in mid 30s are plenty attractive. I just don't want kids for about 5 years and I don't want to date anybody older than meExperience is exactly what you need. You're saying that it's nearly impossible for you to get a 26 year old out on a date. Sounds like you have virtually no experience getting women that you desire. Lay off for 10 years and you're going to be in exactly the same position you're in now, but even worse because you'll be a 39 year old with no experience - basically a social freak.
You say you can get 30 year old women now but you don't want them. But in 10 years you plan on getting women in their mid 30s. What makes you think that you will suddenly start finding 30 year olds attractive? What men find attractive doesn't change that much with age.
This is the biggest load of BS, and the flimsiest excuse I have ever seen on this forum.
Hahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.I'm starting to think someone is paying bigdave and the frog guu to post troll threads and keep sosuave interesting.
No they aren’t. Women at 35 know what they want. Women at 27 don’t have a clue.women are much more sane at 35 than 27
Says who?!yea but women are much more sane at 35 than 27
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I’m talking about Richard The Frog guyHahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.![]()
holy moly do I need to repeat this a 1000 times??
I'm good looking for everyday standards, say top 10% of society. Women on dating sites aren't looking for top 1%, they're looking for top 0.0000000000000001%
says common senseSays who?!