"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Should I ignore dating for about 10 years??
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women in mid 30s are plenty attractive. I just don't want kids for about 5 years and I don't want to date anybody older than me
ive slept with 12 women who I was not interested in dating (few of them were attractive). It didn't help me at all with dating
Also lol if you don't think women online have impossible standards. Why would they settle for an avg man when they can get a male model millionaire??
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Hahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.
No they aren’t. Women at 35 know what they want. Women at 27 don’t have a clue.
Says who?!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I’m talking about Richard The Frog guyHahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.
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No but you sure as fvck are going to remind us over and over how great looking you are, where you "think" you fall in the % of men and still have no clue about dating women.
You are on ignore from here on out. Its depressing reading your worthless shyte over and over.
says common sense