"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Should I ignore dating for about 10 years??
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Women in mid 30s are plenty attractive. I just don't want kids for about 5 years and I don't want to date anybody older than me
ive slept with 12 women who I was not interested in dating (few of them were attractive). It didn't help me at all with dating
Also lol if you don't think women online have impossible standards. Why would they settle for an avg man when they can get a male model millionaire??
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Hahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.
No they aren’t. Women at 35 know what they want. Women at 27 don’t have a clue.
Says who?!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I’m talking about Richard The Frog guyHahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community.
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No but you sure as fvck are going to remind us over and over how great looking you are, where you "think" you fall in the % of men and still have no clue about dating women.
You are on ignore from here on out. Its depressing reading your worthless shyte over and over.
says common sense