"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I ignore dating for about 10 years??

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How do you know the dating scene won't be worse in 10yrs? Social media has already taken over a percentage of it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Experience is exactly what you need. You're saying that it's nearly impossible for you to get a 26 year old out on a date. Sounds like you have virtually no experience getting women that you desire. Lay off for 10 years and you're going to be in exactly the same position you're in now, but even worse because you'll be a 39 year old with no experience - basically a social freak.

You say you can get 30 year old women now but you don't want them. But in 10 years you plan on getting women in their mid 30s. What makes you think that you will suddenly start finding 30 year olds attractive? What men find attractive doesn't change that much with age.


This is the biggest load of BS, and the flimsiest excuse I have ever seen on this forum.
Women in mid 30s are plenty attractive. I just don't want kids for about 5 years and I don't want to date anybody older than me

ive slept with 12 women who I was not interested in dating (few of them were attractive). It didn't help me at all with dating

Also lol if you don't think women online have impossible standards. Why would they settle for an avg man when they can get a male model millionaire??
 

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I'm starting to think someone is paying bigdave and the frog guu to post troll threads and keep sosuave interesting.
Hahahaha. Am I the frog guy? I'm new in here just trying to be part of the community. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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holy moly do I need to repeat this a 1000 times??


I'm good looking for everyday standards, say top 10% of society. Women on dating sites aren't looking for top 1%, they're looking for top 0.0000000000000001%

No but you sure as fvck are going to remind us over and over how great looking you are, where you "think" you fall in the % of men and still have no clue about dating women.

You are on ignore from here on out. Its depressing reading your worthless shyte over and over.
 
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